Cant figure him out does he like me or not

There is this guy that I#039;m best friends with amp; I like him amp; he knows it well we use to be really close now I feel like we are falling a part he use to touch all over me like my butt amp; hug me amp; stuff but he dont do that anymore amp;...

he has a gf at a diff school but thats not whats stopping him cuz he did that stuff while they were going out but theres this one girl he is always hugging amp; stuff amp; he trys to like shove it in my face amp; he told me that he liked me better then her but he dont act like it amp; we use to talk a lot now we dont anymore its like he is tryin to ignore me I dont know what to do I cant figure him out one day he will be all close to me amp; then the next day he barely talks to me or 2nd per he will talk to me amp; then 7th he wont! amp; he is always telling me he is going to hit it! And like today he was all trying to make me mad like he would stare at me amp; say like I love you amp; I would go I know amp; he would go no I was talking to her amp; just stuff like that! SO what do you think it means what should I do! Its really starting to Piss me off! He says that he likes me but I dont know so can any1 help please

You answered this question yourself. You said, quot;he told me that he liked me better then her but he don#039;t act like it.quot;
Have you ever heard the expression, quot;Actions speak louder than words?quot; It#039;s a known expression because it is true. Words are easy to say--all it takes is a little air pushed through the vocal cords. But ACTION--means doing something.

And what he is doing in NO WAY says he even likes you. He only likes the thought of you waiting in the wings in case his present relationship doesn#039;t work out. He likes knowing you like him so much and he can play games with your mind and treat you badly AND you#039;ll stay. He likes the power he has over you. The power you give him.

Take your power back. Why would someone treating you like this be okay with you? And he#039;ll continue to treat you badly as long as you let him.

Good luck and blessings

Thanks so much now I think I really understand what he is doing! But I really dont know what to do about it! I want to make him think I dont like him anymore but I dont know how to! So what do you think I should do? How do I take the power back lol I really need some more help! lol Thanks

Only you know all the little ways in which you let him know you like him. Stop doing them. I imagine they might consist of you waiting for him to say quot;hiquot; to you and dropping everything to stand with him if he does. It#039;s probably in the little things. Keep walking. If he asks if you are mad, say no, but he#039;s got a GF and you hope it works out for them...and KEEP walking.

The minute he thinks you have slipped out of being his love-slave waiting in the wings, he#039;ll turn on the charm. [and this should confirm to you that having you waiting is what he wants] So be prepared for that tactic also. Tell him to to look you up when he DOESN#039;T have a GF.

Look you really don#039;t want a guy who can turn being nice to you off and on. You don#039;t have to wish him bad-luck, just wish yourself good treatment and stick by it. You#039;ll find you respect yourself more.

Blessings and good luck

Thanks! I will try amp; do what you said lol I will keep you posted on how it goes! Today I didnt get to talk to him that much Because he was in Iss! But when I went to the restroom today he was standing in the hall amp; he goes whitley amp; I turned around he goes give me a dollar I go I dont have one he goes I#039;m just playin! But I didnt try to talk to him like what I would have usually done!