can you only get an std if your sex parter has one?

can you only get an std if your sex parter has one?
im a junior in highschool and these people came in school today and talked about STDS. I have a boyfriend and I've had sex with him a couple times , a condom every time. but we both lost our virginity to eachother and he was the first guy I've ever done anything sexualy active with EVER. could I get an std from him even if he was a virgin when he met me and didnt have any stds?

it depends, condoms dont protect you from crabs but most other stds they will

Of course not! People who sleep around are most likely to get STDS.

if he is the only person you are having sex with then he is the only one you can get an std from, unless your are born with one. Keep in mind that although he was a virgin there is a very very very slight chance he could have been born with one if is mom had one, but this is VERY slight

No, absolutley not. It isn't the combining of your fluids that makes STDs. They are passed on from person to person. So unless either of you have had unprotected sex, you ahve nothing to worry about. Hey thats why they say "don't have sex until your honeymoon right?

look losing your virginity in a guy's sense is kind of a vague subject, he could have gotten head, and could have contracted something if the other girl had something, SEX itself means sexual intercourse as in the meeting of the pen*s and vagina, that said, if he has had no contact prior to your engagement in such an act with an STD then you are clear of any worry

but there is a good probability of contracting certain STDs from exchange of bodily fluids (I.e french kissing, swapping spit as it may be called also), ok now the situation is as follows, if you know the guy and know that he wouldn't kiss that "school cheerleader hoe" (no offence to any cheerleaders but thats how you are veiwed as a stereotype) because blisters in your mouth or cuts can give way to infection because of abrasion of mucosal surfaces inside your mouth and so encourage the microbe to infect the new host if the saliva of the infected host reaches the cuts or blisters of the new host........yes the probablility of getting STDs from kissing are very low, but with the right combination of circumstances like I mentioned above, (a person with STDs + a person who has cuts in his/her mouth = Kissing / STDs for everyone)

STDs are only contracted through Sexual intercourse or exchange of bodily fluids, and no touching is not a sexual intercourse neither is kissing believe it or not, but kissing is exchange of bodily fluids. Condoms are very affective towards stopping STDs and pregnancy, and the one with spermicides are even better supposedly according to a new study.

moral of the story, always use protection, and know the person your sleeping with because not to scare you or anything but pregnancy is hell of a b!tch when it comes to women with stds and then think about the poor soul who is going to have to live with it because you didn't take all preventative and protective measures...........think before you act, especially in Sex because us as humans sometimes indulge in sex as a pleasurable activity as opposed to just as a mating ritual like the rest of the animal kingdom.......

hope this helps

Unfortunately guys are not always honest about these things, sometimes girls are not either. Even though he was wearing a condom, STD's of various types can be transmitted from one person to another. Condoms only HELP prevent the transfer of these microscopic organisms. Since you are concerned, you need to see a doctor immediately, both to ease your mind so that you do not worry yourself sick and to also help get rid of anything you have picked up...if you have indeed gotten an STD. There are free clinics around. You can also discuss the matter with a school nurse. Do something about it. and by the way....the best way to prevent STD's is to keep your pants on and zipped up. This also prevents pregnacy 100%

Since both of you have practiced safe sex (congratulations!) and are most likely in a monogomous relationship the chances are that you have not and could not have contracted an STD. Though there are multiple ways of getting an STD (ex: contact with infected blood, oral sex, etc.) when a couple is monogomous, using condoms and protecting themselves from dangerous situations (ex.: no use of hard drugs requiring needles) there is absolutly nothing to worry about.
I suggest you bring the subject up with your boyfriend so that both of you agree to be carefull about having sex together or with others. You should also be going to visit a gynocologist once a year to make sure your healthy.

well..
you can get stds from birth,breastmilk and shooting up-needle drug..that stuff-
soo...if his parents had it..he could..but I think you proble would know...lol

it's always possible to get an STD. but if he doesn't have an STD then you shouldn't get one from him. and condoms do help prevent you from getting STDs but they are not 100% fool proof.