Can you have sex...

My boyfriend wants us 2 have sex - im 13 and hes 18. I want 2 have sex as well but im on my period. Can you have sex will on a period???

You are kidding???

A month ago you were still 12 years old. Why are you even THINKING about having sex at your age?

Is your boyfriend some sort pf pedophile? Why is an 18 year old trying to have sex with a 13 year old?

He can go to prison for 5 years in most states for sex with a minor.

Go back to your dolls until you are mature enough to understand the dangers of what you are planning.

Your boyfrient must be mentally retarded or a sexual deviant. Please feel free to show him this message of mine.

Kiasu

are you just going to have sex cus he wants to and you just want to make him happy? It's your decision but aren't you a little young to have sex and he's 18 and you are 13. He's way to old isn't that called like statutary rape?(probably spelled wrong) I think you should wait and why is he even with a 13 yr old? You should rethink this. Not to be mean but he's probably just using u? Can he not get anyone is age or does he just like young girls?

Kiasu is right. You are 13 years old and should not be thinking about having sex at that age, You are way way way to young.
He's 18, all he wants is tight pu**y, fresh meat, once he's got it, he's gonna leave you and you will regret it.

Your body is not ready to have sex and your mind isn't either.
Girls at your age are out with friends playing sports or whatever little girls do theses days. You shouldn't be having sex at 13!

I know that you're 13 and that you're a teen ager and that you think you're all grown up because I did too when I was 13, and I hated that every one was treating me as a little girl and I did stuff that I shouldn't have been, but at 13 I had a hard life, which isn't an excuse but all I'm trying to say is save your virginity for some one special.

Last year I went out with a guy that was 5 years older than me, all he wanted was sex, he surely didn't show it because if he did I wouldn't do it.
Than he left me.
You're boyfriend will do the same, trust me.
He's 18 so he'll go out and find another girl after you, either my age or older than him.
Why do I say my age? Because at 16 you are more mature than a 13 year old.
You might say I'm mature too and I think like I'm 16 but you really don't.
And he's gonna want some one that he can stay out past 10 pm with and go to movies and not worry about having you home by 5 30 pm or what ever time you have to be home.

Also, I know you like him because he's sweet, cute, and everything that you ever dreamed of and that's he's mature he dosn't think like a little boy and that he's independant, but what I have to say is you need a boyfriend around your age,
About 14,15 maybe 16.
But hun, be careful, I know I'm not your mom and maybe tlkin like a mom but don't be stupid and get your heart broken...

Good luck to ya!
XoXo

Read and understand kbaby1993's brilliant response summermayfenwick!

Kiasu

You will regret this big time. Even if he truly loves you there is no way you both will have a future together. The person you are now is not the same person you will be when you are 18 and older and look back with shame at your decision and you will carry it forever.

A nice guy in the future, is going to ask you if you are a virgin and when you say no, he is going to ask you how old where you when you lost your virginity. Then you tell him 12 or 13. That is going to be shocking. But then he will ask, how old was the guy. And when you tell him 18. He is going to freak out. and either think you have been sleeping with guys since your were 12 and are a slut or there is something wrong with you mentally and emotionally and too much baggage. And he will leave you and you will feel horrible low self esteem.

What if you are doing it with this guy and change your mind half way while he is on top? He will overpower you and tell you Is normal to feel pain and will be over soon but when all is done you will feel raped. What are you going to do? Tell your Mom? Have your Mom call the police? Go thru all that and going to court? You will be too afraid to do so and will not tell anybody and feel raped forever.

Also be advised that most guys in high school are really good at tricking girls into sex as a conquest and when all is done they will move on.

EWWW! Your only 13! Ok, he's 18! That's 5 years older than you! and since he's an adult, and you're a minor, he can go to jail. I am 13! I've never had sex, and I don't plan to till I'm married. And, since you have your period, you can get pregnant. Anyways, he'll probably dump you, cus he'll probably think that you suck at sex. That's really sad! Also, when you get married, it'll be weird having sex on your wedding night, knowing that you have had sex with another man. You really need to think abour your choices and consequences. Just think...

Are you even being serious. If you are I advise you not to do it. I didn't have sex untill I was 19 I am 22 now and still with the same guy. Even though I still regret having sex before marriage. Yeah I'm still with him and all seems well, I love him to death, but you never know when he will just decide to get up leave. Please dont make this mistake at that young of an age. You have many many more years to live life. Just be a kid for now and go out with your girls. You will eventually find someone you will love more than this guy. You dont believe me now but you will see what I'm talking bout in the future. I'm not telling you what to do but this guy is way to old. If he truely liked you which can I guess be possible, because I'm 22 my now fiance is 32, but we met when I was over 18, but if he truely did like you he would respect you enough respect your body enough to know that you are way to young to do anything with can truely hurt you not only now but also in the future. He should be aware enough to know that your body is not ready for anything like that.

why is it that really young girls want to have sex so soon? Why do old guys want to have sex with young girls? they should bioth be slapped upside the head.

ok...there is a five year difference between you 2!!! look I'm 17 now and have been in the same sitch as you...I know that what older guys say to you may make you feel like you are special...but honestly they just want one thing from you...don't ruin you life for him...what if you end up pregnant?? or with aids??? you have an entire life to live don't waste it on some guy that says he loves you.

sorry but YES KIASU!!!
he is write
to answer your question
no you can not durin your period
and even if you could it would b really gross
but still kiasu is 110% correct

Why in the Hell do you wanna have sex with someone as old as 18 thats a crime in all states an here in Michigan its a crime that can put the guy in Prison from upto 15 years to life.An yes you can to get pregnant while your on your period cause My sister was on hers an got pregnant real easily as an other time too.

don't do it,I am 13 and I would never think of it!!! please don't lose your life!!!

how dare every1 say things like that!! I got bored while readin horrible replys like that!!! My boyfriend isnt pushing me 2 do anythin - he just asked me if I wanted sex and when I sed I wasnt sure, he just sed ok, wenever you want! and anyway, all I wanted 2 know is if I cud have sex while bein on a period!!!

do it if you want but he can go to jail and it could be reported as statatory rape!! aka sex with a minor
but you can et pregnant and an STD but if you do it then make sure he is wearing a condom
and also one more thing is that sex when your not fully developed SERIOUSLY HURTS LIKE SOMEONE IS RIPING THROUGH your BODY and trust me I know because I had sex with a 15 year old when I was 13 and it serioously hurts so -
consider all of this before you make a big mistake
but if you do do it with him make sure you have condoms or your on the pill but to be sure do both!!
good luck hun!!

summermayfenwick, you said in your response to some of the replies to your original question, 'My boyfriend isnt pushing me 2 do anythin - he just asked me if I wanted sex and when I sed I wasnt sure.'

That is not what you said in your original question, you stated quite clearly, 'I want 2 have sex as well.'

So don't come back on here angry at peoples replies.

FACT - You are too young to have sex both legally and emotionally.

FACT - If your 'boyfriend' has sex with you he can go to prison for a very long time.

So you were 12 years old when you went out with an 18 year old guy. Me must be seriously deranged or some sort of pedo pervert.

Do you really feel he is going out with you for your intelligence and awe inspiring conversational skills??? Get real girl.

Get rid of him and find a guy your own age and if you dont want people to reply to your questions in a passionate and honest manner, dont bother asking any in future.

You are nothing but a silly little girl.

Kiasu

1. Read Kiasu's answers. He certainly knows what he's talking about, because he's an adult, and he was once a child like you. Don't skim through everything, READ what he's saying.

2. UNDERSTAND his answers and realize that you are way too young for sex. You'll enjoy these experiences more when you're older.

3. Don't attack people for posting. They are trying to help you.

Please just wait. You're boyfriend probably only wants sex. If you're younger he can pressure you easier than he can someone his age. Don't let him take advantage of you!!!

Good luck.

no sex on your period so wait till it goes away in 3 or 4 years

thanx mr baiser 4 not tellin me how 2 live my life like every1 else has!!

summermayfenwick

You said: 'thanx mr baiser 4 not tellin me how 2 live my life like every1 else has!!'.

Did you ever wonder why so many people felt so strongly that what you were planning to do at 13 was wrong?

Clearly you have just taken all the comments and advice as criticisms rather than take on board the concerns and worries.

Some of the advice was given to you by teens who had sex at your age. They told you that they really wish they had not done this.

What makes you so clever and wise at 13 that you think that you know how to do everything and you know best what is good for you.

The advice here would be given the same to any other 13 year old that asked the same question. The comments are not personal to you, we all know that other girls of your age will also read the replies.

If only 1 of them takes on board the advice then at least we have not all wasted our time.

Why do you think so many people went out of their way and spent their time telling you not to have sex? They are NOT telling you how to live your life, they are warning you of the dangers of having sex at such a young age.

Sex is not a game. You are 13, it can be very painful and dangerous.

You have shown yourself to be just a silly, ignorant girl trying to play at being a grownup.

Kiasu

what's wrong with you?

your freakin' 13 and having sex!

and he's 18, that's just sick. he is a perv.

BUT SERIOUSLY DONT DO IT. YOU ARE UNDERAGE AND HE COULD BE PUT IN PRISON FOR HAVING SEX WITH YOU.

I don't wanna be horrible but thats illegal and if he gets caught he will go to prison so wait till your like 18 or something then you can I think x