Can't stop thinking about sex!!

I'm 27 and married, though my husband and I never had sex - he said last year just the though of it grossed him out, even though he loves and respects me more than anything in the world. Lately, I have been thinking about sex NON-STOP and I have even...

better getting wet at work just thinking about it - kinda gross. .; And I have even been thinking about MAYBE making out with a girl just to get the thoughts out of my mind so I can focus more on work and whatnot.

What should I do??

wow, make him have sex with you and I bet he wont be saying its gross, thats un heard oof, of a guy saying that,

Hah, I have tried. Tried getting him in the mood, getting him drunk, talking to him about it. And he mentioned having kids in the future, but I don't want it to be like Ok, sex just to have kids and that's it. Plus, I have been masterbating a LOT. Just... ahg!!! It's SOOO FRUSTRATING!!!

Why don't you dump your husband and just...I don't know, come live with me?

But no, seriously...when you don't have an answer to something you always check the roots, or the beginning. Can you tell me the reason why sex grosses him out? Maybe he thinks vagina's are just in general, gross, and by wearing a condom, he might be more comfortable with it? Something like that.

Leave a comment on my page (by clicking on my account name and looking to the right side of the screen) about what he doesn't like about it, and I'll try to help you more.

some people acrtually have no desire at all to have sex
talk to your husband
ask him if hes ever felt like having sex
if not then he may be one of these few people, who dont like sex and dont ever want to have it
this is normal for him
dont cheat on him with another man or woman though
if you dont like this, tell him you like sex and just dont think it can work between you two if your not having it, then break it off with him

Have you ever thought that maybe he's not interested in sex with you because maybe he's gay? Either way, it's perfectly normal for you to desire sex... you need to talk to him about this...

omg! married and not having sex? Please say you're gonna strap him down and do it!

wow, I couldn't imagine that... if this is gonna be a problem to the point of you wanting to cheat on him then I think you need to seriously consider a divorce... if your husband can't at least have sex with you to make you happy then he really just doesn't sound like a very respectful husband... you need to think long and had about this one... but don't cheat on your husband...

ask him to just try it.
im sure once you get him going he will like it and want more but if he doesn't then you know you've tried and maybe if sex is that important to you, he isn't the right guy for you

You should have sex, but with a man. And if your husband refuses it, you should do it with an other man. Of course, you must be careful. That man should be a gentle and discrete person. You two have to like each other at least.

... I'm kinda offended as a human being that someone thinks sex is gross. It's a totally natural thing, and your SUPPOSED TO DO IT!!! make him watch porn, or dirty talk him, or something. do something.

Is he gay?!?!?!? Who doesn't want to have sex?

Okay. What I suggest is one night, while he is showering or something; you get into some sexy lingerie, maybe light some candles, some toys, you know, use your imagination. And when he comes out of the shower or whatever he is doing you get into a very provocative pose on the bed and invite him over.

I have to say, that a man not wanting sex sounds very, very strange to me. Maybe he's just very self conscious and afraid to 'unleash the beast.'

Also, if he finds it disgusting make sure that you're 'clean' so not to repel him from doing it again. I'm sure that if he has it once, he's going to want it again, and eventually you'll be satisfied.

I really don't know... I am still kinda young. I think you just need to get over this crazed obsession to have sex. is he reilgious, do you guys or does he go to church? some people just don't feel the urge to have sex because they may feel bad towards God about it. cause I know I am gonna have sex only if I want a baby, which I do, 2 actually