Can girls please answer.

Just out of curiousity.

I have a question about your first time having sex.

I'm 20 and had sex for the first time a while ago (I was protected before anyone goes down that road - pill and condom) and it hurt like hell...we took it very slowly, but it...

was still extremely sore, even while using lubricant and there was a lot of blood.

The second time was also very sore - it was about 2 days after my first time and then the 3rd time me and my boyfriend had sex it was nice...but even sore when we started.

Also what is strange is I've been using tampons my whole life and been fingered before that etc etc.

but it still hurt like hell.

I'm just curious if this is normal.

and I know what a hymen is etc etc and everything that I should know before I actually do it...I just didn't expect it to hurt as much

some people are different than other when its their first time ... it takes at least two weeks until it stops hurting ... but if your worryed you could always just go to the doctor ... I ride horses so when I lost mine it didnt hurt so bad ... but hope I helped! GOOD LUCK!

yes this is very normal im pretty sure that a tampon is a lot skinnyer then your boyfriends penis! ..of course its going to hurt because its something your not use to you virgina walls are being forced to open up!..the more you have sex the more the pain should decrease!

ihey! it was the smae way for me on my first times...it was like the 5th time I did that it actually started to feel good. and even now after me and my boyfriend have sex I am still kind of sore. but I have nerver bled before... but it is just your skin rubbing back and forth and the force that makes it sore. wit will heal up in a few days. I bet your boyfriends penis is thick that is probably why it hurt so bad the first time. I went through the same thing.
good luck