Burning desires and troubles of sex

I need to get this of my chest, its killing me and eating away at me inside, making me cry and worry 24/7, im 13 right, thrust into a world of adolesence, drugs, alcohol and sex. The drugs and alcohol dont effect me ,I ignore then whuch is more that I...

can say for me pityfull excuse for a mother. I've coped with girl adolesence and that leaves one thing left..sex, making love, what ever you call it, its all around me, everyday I see it all the time, I cant escape it. I've explored myown body, experimented with touching myself and more..then I goe curiose and wanted to explore someone elses body and for them to explore mine. I've thought of boys, there are people I've dreamed of making love to, thinking of them while I masterbate, the need for this is overwhelming, its hurting me like a need to breath.
Now I know what your thinking'' grow up you slut, its a phaze all teens go through'' but this is more and I know it..and well I need to know what to do, I wont be happy until I make love with the person I love and I know this person loves me. I'm 13. 3 years under the uk sex law thing. People have told me to have sex people have told me to not..its so confusing, the point is I cant wait, I've tried my hardest belive me I have and it hurts bad theres only one remedie for this and I want it bad, I need this more than I need air

So please dont insult me, fun mail me or talk I need help male and female alike,

To Be Honest We cant tell you what to do you need to do your own decission but if you think your ready your ready please just have safe sex and get on till pilll.. I cant say nothing because I had sex at 13 and it was a big mistake I wish I would of waited till the right boy who im with now ... so if you want to have sex just ecaful and you are a bit young but I cant say anything so good luck ..x

** I wont be happy until I make love with the person I love and I know this person loves me.**Then WHY hasnt he asked you to be his girlfriend? You dont have a clue what love really is, because love does NOT equal sex! You WILL regret giving your virginity away SO carelessly because what you thought you wanted isnt what you needed 5 years from now! You have your WHOLE life ahead of you, why are you in such a hurry to have sex?? **The result of children involved in adult sexual activity is the increased rate of teen pregnancy!** The physiological side of things, it's very dangerous for a young single woman to be sexually active. Because a teenage girl's reproductive system is still immature, she is much more susceptible to STDs. In fact, early sexual activity is the number one risk factor for cervical cancer, and the second is multiple sex partners.I've A girl's heart, like her body, is not designed to handle multiple sexual partners. Besides making herself vulnerable to STDs.

I think more parents need to talk to their kids about sex and tell them its not o.k. to be engaging in risky behavior like this. Kids NEED to be kids!

angelfire, chill. hey dont have sex. your too young. wait til your 16 AT LEAST. angelfire was a jerk and I think she could have been a little nicer. if she cant be nice even about something serious she shouldnt be commenting. anyway youll throw your life away. its not worth it, listen to the first girl who posted.