Break up.....what should I do girls....

Hey, well im all new to this thing so please bare w/me. Ok I had a boyfriend almost fiance of about 3 years....we were doing great...And we both really thought we were going to get married. Well eventuallty after time passes like 3 years fights come in and well problems. Sometimes we fought so bad I never wanted to see him again. But we always stuck thru them like a married couple. And we've had our ups and downs, breaks here and there but I was ALWAYS the one running back to him. Well 2 weeks ago he ened it w/me over a really big stupid fight. We both went out of control and said some really mean things. I couldn't beieve it but now im doing better. Everyone told me that if I left him alone and he really loved me hed come back. So, im trying so hard not to call him or see him. Well he called a week ago and said he wanted to make peace w/me but eventually told me he missed me. Me, being the nuthead poured out all my feeling to him again thinkig we were going to get back. Well now I think he knows that he can get me back when HE wants to he hasn't called or done anything. Please...I know I have to just leave it completely alone and wait and see but if ya'll have any advice please......Tell me. Thanx

First of all, don't run to him let him run to you! I was in your position last year. If he really loves you, then he'll come back to you. Don't talk to him, don't see him, and don't call him! Your only going to make it worse! Give it a week or two, then see what happens. If he really wants to be with you, then he will realize that he made a big mistake, and come back. Try this, and let me know what happens. Good Luck!!