Break up or no?

Aiiightt.
Im dating my good friend.
my dad found out and is mad at me for lying and not telling him I was going out with him. (and he doesnt trust him for it for going along with the lie)
My dad is prob not gonna let us hang anymore hes basically...

grounded me for the summer for my grades.
My boyfriend says he doesnt care and he is just happy that im with him.
But it kills me to know he is always lonely cud be happy with someone else.
maybe im wasting my time too because I ccan rarely see him.
But he has done so much for me. He decided not to move bc of me now I feel like he hsa bound me to him.
I wanna break up. But I cant see him in person to do it because of my dad.
Its lame to break up on the phone rite?

Well its not lame if thats your only communication.
I think you should call him and basically give him the choice of wether he wants to stay with you or move on.
I am surprised at how mature your being about this
You must really care about him♥

Wow. I say you have no other choice. I personally hate phone break ups. It shows weakness. But if that is how you have to do it then hey. Take care of your business. One other thing could be: Talk to your dad. Sit him down and let him know how you feel and that you had a good reason for lying(HINT: I hope you had a good reason) Although there are never really good reasons to lie ... Sometimes the lie is best atleast for the time being and they always come to the light anyways. I hope I helped out some. Hit me back at Fun mail me let me know how it goes...Bye Bye!

if YOU want to break-up then yea the phone sounds like your only option. blunt but what break-up isn't.
but IF you're only breaking up with him because YOUR DAD doesn’t like him, than I think that’s a bad idea. you should try talking to your dad about your relationship with him and what he means to you.
remember you're your dads little baby girl and he will never truly be happy with any guy you date, no matter how old you are or who the guy is.
and as for feeling bad because he doesn't get to see you much you said it yourself he doesn't care he'll be happy knowing that you care about him and want to be with him. he knows its your dad forcing the distance between you two not you

I dont think you should me and my girlfriend had the same prob we got caugh underage drinkin and my mom said I couldnt see her anymore so almost everynight at like 2 or 3 in the morning I would sneek out my house down my driveway I live out in the country so I have a long driveway lol anyway just stick with it if you both like eachother just talk to him on the phone and if your that rebellious like me sneak out and see him you can keep this alive if you just try me and my girl did for about 4 months untill my mom just gave up because I would keep seein her and she couldnt stop me no matter what I've been with her a year on june5 and I've loved every second of it

thank youu !

PS. btw its not just bc of my dad.. we dont talk like we usedta bc he insists on making it a very intimate relationship, but for me I look for both intimacy and a frienship. fact is he always talks bout his exes and stuff.
I wanna break up but he has donie so much for me. but I dont wanna make it worse.

just follow you heart dear and look at things rationally