Break up..

I don't understand guys..my boyfriend..well now ex..makes no sense..well to me anyway...I asked if he could spend a bit more time with me during the week and he said he works and he's not really ready for a girlfriend right now..and he asked to still be...

friends..and so I asked him what he wanted..and he said he wants to be with me but he's not really ready for a girlfriend..and once again wanted to still be friends...whats that meant to mean?

Also one of his friends said not to long ago that he was going to do whatever it takes to break us up..do you think he could have had something to do with what has happened?

You never know with guys. And when he says he isn't ready for a girlfriend he either really means it, has another interest, or just wants to keep his options open. And, what his friend said may or may not have influenced him in some way. If it did, then your probably better off without him anyway.

that sounds a lot like my story... hmmm