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Why did he break up with me?!

Me Asked by eudaimonia over 2 years ago, 2 answers.

Everything was going good with me and my boyfriend. We had been together about 2 and a half months and he was always doing things to show me he cared. On Wednesday he told me I think we got a good thing goin on and I agreed. It was great. He washed and...

waxed my car on Friday and ordered dinner and we watched a movie. He told me to give him a call when I got home to make sure I got home okay, he always did this and it was so sweet. He called me Saturday morning and told me it was going to be a bad day at work, but he'd call me when he was off. I worked until 6 and as soon as I was leaving he called me and said we need to talk...about us. I knew what he was doing, but I had no idea why! He was saying we are moving too fast and I don't feel the same way about you as you do about me. Then yesterday he came and got his stuff from my apartment and he was acting like such an a**hole, like I had done something wrong. I asked him what is the real reason because it doesn't make any sense He was like you wanna know the truth? you are too clingy and pushy and when you told me you loved me it freaked me out. I said yeah, well you already knew for 2 weeks that I loved you so what difference did it make? His whole story just doesn't add up. I didn't cry infront of him (I'm proud of myself), and I'm more angry than sad now. I told him before we got together that I was clingy, and he said he liked clingy! I was only clingy with him because he made me happy. So, I don't understand....I'm thinking that maybe an ex came back into the picture or something...am I missing something here??

Me Answered by locoluna on Apr 23, 2007, 09:12PM
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Yeah you scared him with i love you. After only 2 and a half months thats a very short time to share the l word. Real love and falling inlove takes longer, and saying it so soon scared him, plus with you being clingy it really scared him, he prob felt married already and you werent together long. So now, step back, dont contact him and let him do his own things becos the more you contact him now, you'll just prove his point, so leave him alone and think about moving on.

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yay yay yay Answered by antoninap on Apr 23, 2007, 09:19AM
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guys are scared of the words,, i love you... it proberly didnt hit him tell about later and he realized what you had just said.

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