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Break up

Asked by confusedasusual over 4 years ago, 1 answer.

I had a boyfriend for 3 years. I moved from my country to his, but still worked abroad, so we were separated for many months at a time. He recently broke up with me to move to another country for a job that will take him at least 19 months till he...

returns. He has a few short breaks in between. He was always there for me, and always so patient until i returned. He always had a loving relationship when we were apart before. He was so kind and caring and took the time to make sure that i was alright. I helped him to leave and arrange everything and prepare for his term, and now i have been left. He never talks with me in the brief times i have talked with him. Never brings up our relationship except that he wishes us to be friends. We had agreed that the relationship would be on hold, but friends doesn't sound like on hold. I am really confused and very hurt. I love him very much and i feel so deserted and betrayed and used. I helped him for years to get this position and suddenly i am excused? Im not sure what to do about it. He told me he will be coming home in a few weeks, he has been gone only 8 now. He said he really wanted to see me, but he didn't know, he didn't know if I was ready to see him as just a friend. I am so confused and so very very hurt. Please help. And please don't put this on the net somewheres where he might see it. Im sure he can figure it out, that its exactly us, that this is about. He has also told me many times, that he is very busy, which i know he is, and he is very sorry, but his job has to come first. He never tells me he misses me now, or that he loves me, or that he thinks of me. He always did before when we were parted. I really don't understand this.

Answered by confusedasusual on Jul 20, 2005, 03:32PM

sorry i should have mentioned,,, IT WAS HIM THAT LEFT THIS TIME, NOT ME. I had left for 4 to 6 months 3 times, and all was ok. But suddenly he is more important, and I can't contact him, and he needs to concentrate, and he just can't have me in his thoughts. He said it hurt to much for him. And suddenly after 8 weeks we are to be friends?? hmmm

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