(boys)how do i get him to share his feelings?

The Bean in Chicago my hometown Asked by mariachitown 10 months ago, 4 answers.

everytime I share my feeling with him he never returns the favor like this conversation
him-I cant wait till yu get off your period so we can f*ck
me-well I dont wanna lose my virginity to someone whos not gonna stay loyal to me( a week ago he told me...

we were losing the spark we used to have and I was so hurt because I wasnt acting any diff. so I don't want that to happen if I was to give it up to him...because what if we break up then I will regret doing it and I will never forget it)
him-well if thats how you feel
me-what do yu mean?
him-if thats the way yu feel then ok
me-tell me how yu feel about it?
him-(changed the topic)

so but anyway he dint even try to fix it and say sumtin like well I really wanna be wit yu and I wouldnt break up wit yu for a stupid reason he just never tells me what he feels even though~were very close
[please help]

Messed up me. Answered by emeruby on Jan 08, 2009, 05:35PM
210 answers

Haha.. Sounds like he is using you for a sex barbie doll, Just playing around with you until he figures out how to hike up the skirt and get to what he wants... I don't know about any other guys but I'm the shy type and if I have been around someone long enough with a fair amount of conversation ( Like... A month or two depending on the person and how they act.) I normally will open up to them about things slowly.

Answered by souljagurltellem on Jan 08, 2009, 05:41PM
95 answers

he really isnt I dint share all my info. but he really is sensitive to my feelings and is like the perfect boyfriend we been together for 3months he never tries to push me into it and I know its genuine when he says he loves me -thanxx for the advice =)

Nino! Answered by cmg1144 on Jan 08, 2009, 05:48PM
96 answers

hes just shy. if he changes the subject, you should give him a helping push and ask him 2 or 3 more times. if that doesn't work, the next time you 2 talk about that, you should ask again! or try telling him that you really want to know about how he feeles. if he cares about you that much, he should know that you find it important.

Answered by gojo808 on Jan 08, 2009, 06:08PM
87 answers

See I will open my feelings to a girl when I feel I can trust her and when I feel comfortable with her. Like how my girlfriend is now, I open up because I feel comfortable with her knowing. I think she things I open up too much though.. Not sure how to fix that because I feel comfortable around her. I think I gotta keep everything to myself though. Just give him small pushes like asking him a couple more times and reassurehim that he can open up to you and that he can trust you. That's wjarcwould work for me.

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