Boyfriends- anyone else with this problem?

So it seems latley all my friends have boyfriends, but me, even my little sister has a boyfriend(and shes had like 3 in the past). Im almost 16 (never had a boyfriend + never kissed) and it seems like guys only see me as a friend. (I have guy friends but...

they just see me as like one of the guys). So heres my personality im the girl girl who wears make up and dresses up, but very intelligent(1 year ahead in school, honors,ap classes, straight a's) and am very athletic (soccer, gymnastics) and I keep to myself. Now heres what I dont get, when I go to the beach guys like always come up to me and try to get my number but in my school life and normal social life this never happens...

How do I get a boyfriend that will not be intimidated by me?

I dont think its my fault that a guy doesnt want the girl who puts her heart into everything and has dreams and goals.

look at you and when you catch him, he tends to look away.
Text/call you on his own if you did it first.
Make up excuses to talk to you.
Find ways to be around you.
Pretend to like someone else.
Become your friend.
Be playful with you.
Try to make you laugh/feel better.
P.S. If you don't know if a guy likes you tell them in someway, and you will be able to assume if they do, by the way that they react.

Here are some things to look for to know when a girl or a guy likes you:

Keep an eye on how many times you catch her/him staring at you.
Take notice of whether s/he smiles at you a lot.
Look for whether s/he focuses on you in a crowd.
Walk to her and talk to her/him see if she wants to go out with you.
Pay attention to any significant changes in her/his behavior toward you recently.
Start showing her/him a bit more interest and see how they respond.
Have a friend talk to her/him or one of her/his friends about you.
Ask, '[name], are you interested in me?'
Look for signs of teasing.

Tips: Hopefully you will not have to use steps 7 or 8, but if you're having difficulty reading her/him, these steps are your last resort! Remember, this is not an exact science, and it may take a few mistakes to perfect your technique.

if I was looking for a girlfriend. you would have ticked all the boxes. ( smart, athletic,etc etc). maybe guys do try to get with you but you don't get their signals? maybe you dont send them hints back?

Thanks, but if the guys are sending me signals what would they be because if they are im totally ignoring them and have no clue. Its sometimes hard to tell because most guys see me as like a really good friend.

heres some from another girl:
The easiest way to tell (for anyone) is to just take an innocent step into their personal space. If they aren't interested then they will step away. If they are interested then they will set closer boundaries for you and will therefore not mind your closer-than-normal presence.

I'm a girl and when I like a guy I try to seem uninterested or unavailable just so they think they can't have me and want me more. Before me and my boyfriend were going out, he tried to be near me all the time; tried to find a way to touch my shoulders, arms, hands, feet, etc.; always tried to put his arm around me. When I said that I was cold or tired, he always put his arm around me and said things like, Do you want me to warm you up? and, Lay your head on my shoulder. Overall it is really easy to tell if a guy likes you or not.

One of the signs that a boy likes you is when he always teases you or makes fun/jokes.
He seems to find reasons to be with or near you. He may come up with what you think are lame or legit reasons to speak to you, call you, ask something. Try watching if he looks into your eyes or at least eye contact when he talks to you. Does he find ways to be closer to your body, near you, sit close or on the same side of the room as you? Does he talk to you instead of at you? Does he want your opinion? Cares what you have to say? Does he seem to be around you often, when he can? Does his face lighten up or seem to go from stress to unstressed when you walk in or say hello? A guy may not be obvious about it either, especially if he's shy, or maybe a little unsure of himself, which doesn't mean he's a loser at all but probably warmer from with in or more depth to him, more sensitive.

Boys might not tell you directly, but they may tell someone. Or perhaps when you are not around but your friend is there he will ask for you.

I'm a girl and I like two guys that are both my friends, and I think they like me because: 1 of them told me a secret that he only told me and my other friend, one that could really affect his like (we are not BFFs we are just good friends so this means a lot 4 me) so if he talks to you a lot datz a good sign. the other one: when we wer patnerin up, I didnt have a partner and he was staring at me the whole time, till he had the guts to walk over to me and ask me to be his partner, and then the whole block we sat there talking and goofing off. We wer sharin deep stuff. and we always look at eachother during class if someone duz something funny or we remembr an inside joke. AND He's always staring at me. AND in the morningz he always walks over 2 me and sayz hi and we talk a little. AND a whole bunch of other stuff that I dont feel like typin righ now. so I think any of those are good signs.

I don't know have same problem.

I have the EXACT same thing! I have just finished school (I'm 16) and have never had a boyfriend or first kiss! so don't feel bad- I know plently of my friends haven't have a boyfriend or kiss or whatever either, and they are genuinely lovely people and pretty. I know it's a bit rubbish feeling sometimes though!
In school I'm predicted to get all A*s, I do sports (running etc) and I'm quite a tall girl tbh, like 511 or something, so it probally puts a lot of guys off as it's only really in the last year boys have been taller than me!
Except I know guys out of school like me because at the gym they are looking at me, when I walk into town I often get guys honking and saying I'm fit or whatever when this walk past and I can get numbers.

I think I just need to work on my confidence I guess I think I'm more confident around guys out of school, maybe it's because I haven't known them for as long!

It could be on holiday you are stress free and are able to be the confident pretty girl you truely are. Perhaps in school you are busy with work and without flirting, guys can see you as a little sister- I think this happened with me.

I'm sorry! This wasn't exactly advice!! :L Ahhh lol! Just to say there are others like you =) just be confident and smillleee =) x