How can i get over my boyfriend's cheating?

I had/have a boyfriend that I have been with for almost 2 years now... during are one year anniversary we began to fight a little, things were rocky. Well we ended breaking up and a week later he slept with another girl... A slut to go along with it......

he said it was the biggest mistake he ever made and we have been on and off ever since then. To make it worse he slept with this girl the day I had to put my dog to sleep... it was the worst day ever... However I didn't find out that day I ended up finding out that coming weekend... he told me everything that happened, which I appreciate,but, I can't get over it... I know that, it wasn't like him to do something like that... he's just not like that... It has been a long time, but every time I turn around thats all my mind is on... He gets mad at me for bring it up, but I just can't forget!! I cry I get mad it's a mess... I really love him and to make things worse he was my first and my only... it hurts!! I need some input... he doesn't talk to her since that night, it was a one night stand... but it kills me inside...help!!

Hmm... a lot of what she said is true but at the same time people make mistakes. It's true that you didn't go and sleep with someone and he did, but guys are guys. The question is can you still trust him. Because what is a relationship without trust? Are you willing to really try to make things work and risk your heart. But that's the thing. Love is a risk. You can't judge a person by one mistake. If it happens over and over again it's different. But it's human nature to mess up... If you really love him, look at the whole situation... of course it's hard to move on but if it really was just once then forgive but don't forget, you should remember what happened but for you to move on you have to forgive him or your relationship will go nowhere.

went through the very same thing, but i would NEVER take my ex back. He told me he had s*x out of hurt. Well, i was hurt too, but didnt sleep with anyone. He cheats on his gf ALL the time. He always told me he wasnt like other guys, but he was just piling one lie on top of another.

Dont label the girl he slept with....he has a head that he should have used, but it wasnt the one attached to his neck! Thats their self defense, and i think its a big weakness when they go and sleep with another girl so soon after! Just goes to show how he truly felt about you. Thats how i look at it. My ex must not have truly loved me for him to do what he did. Im a forgiving person, but i just dont look at him the same way i used to. I wont wont settle for anything less than i deserve. I feel if he did it once, he will do it again........and he continues to do so!

If you cant get past what he did, then you arent going to have much of a relationship. A cloud will always hang over your relationship, and you'll never truly feel cherished, or completely loved. Your the one that has to live with what he did, and if you cant, then you need to leave him, and move on.

dump him and forget him, you can do better.

You can't I tried and tried it'll never work, and if you stay you would be settling for less. The feeling hurts so bad I cry trying to explain. I cry so much and can't stop at some points, but I was warned before about him from his ex girl she told me that, that's all he ever done to her. We were in love...I was in love. I just don't know what to do at night sometimes when he's not here and I wonder why he didn't care. I can never forget I will never forget, I guess I should just learn from my mistakes,God help Me PLease!!!