Boyfriend says stress a baby might break us up

I am 31 he is 27. we have an 19 month old and I am 4 1/2 weeks preggo. I don't want to be single with 2 kids down the road. now he tells me he wants the baby. I have an abortion scheduled tomarrow.

Sounds like he has no intention of being a serious parent. You already have one child to raise. There are plenty of couples that would love to adopt your baby that you are carrying and give him/her a wonderful home. The problem with abortion is you will carry a scar that never goes away for the rest of your life and wonder who they might have been.

Think hard, think about alternatives and don't think that abortion is the only one. Try calling about some adoption resources, you might find there's a better way. But personally, I'd lose the loser boyfriend and find a man worthy of you as a mother and a wife. Not just someone to play house with.

Please dont get an abortion...look for adoption. you got pregnant so you shouldnt kill the baby lots of people would like to adopt and get rid of the guy.

 
Don't have the abortion because you think it will keep you and him together. It won't. If he is going to leave he will leave regardless of what you do.

Consider that your 19 month old and your one in the womb are going to be pretty close in ages so will likely bond quite well. Do you want to deprive your 19 year old of a sibling?

I won't presume to tell you whether you should or shouldn't get an abortion. I'm personally against them but I believe in the woman's right to choose.

All I can say is to think carefully about it and make your decision based upon what is best all around.

If you decide you don't want the abortion then go ahead and cancel it. That is your prerogative.

If you decide to give the baby up for adoption then you have plenty of time to make the necessary preparations.

If you decide to keep the baby I'm sure that you can find organizations and agencies that can help you if you do end up becoming a single parent.

If I was voting, I'd vote to keep the baby. It will become one of the joys of your life!

Good Luck.

Ted