Boyfriend in j-a-I-l

My boyfriend Josh is in jail, and I need to know what to do. Should I wait around for him to get out, or should I forget him and move on with life. He can be out in anywhere from 3 months to 4 years. Be it the latter, im definetly not waiting...But I dont think I've ever been so in love in my life...what should I do?

If you really love him then that chould'nt even be a hard choice.

Its clear to see that you dont really love him as much as you think.

okay if you loved him so much then you wouldn't even be asking this question!!! you would already know the answer without even thinking!!!

These people are giving horrible advice. You can still be in love with your boyfriend, however you have to remember to love yourself before you can love anyone else. You're a young girl, and you should value your own life enough to know that your youth should not be wasted waiting for someone to get out of jail for something they did wrong. Put it this way, if you're boyfriend loved you as much as it seems, then why did he do something so selfish and place you in this situation? I think its smart not to wait for him. Maybe you guys can discuss the limits of your relationship; possibly giving you a little bit of freedom until he gets out? True love will stand the test of time, and you'll be with him when he gets out if its real. Until then, enjoy your life and have fun dating. You're only 17. Hope this helps :-)

Follow your heart. My man as been in jail for 6 months so far and still hasnt been sentenced or anything so we have no idea how long he will be there. He needs you now and if you love him then you should stay but still have fun

what can of advice can I give my man who is in jail and under stress?

Actually I am going through the same thing my boyfriend just went to jail yesterday facing 11 months for prole violation. Thing is in the past he has done me wrong so im like should I wait or move on with my life. To help you answer that ? you have to sit down and really think about what you want out of your life and can you accept that if you do wait for him then there are going to be temtations out there to test your love for him. Most important thing is what you want not what anyone else wants that is a struggle all in it self.