Boyfriend ignoring me

Hi friends... We are in love for the past 1 year, he only proposed me and made so many promises to keep me happy in the future. I have accepted him. I love him so much now. We had good relationship for 3-4 months(nt sexual way), then he got to go to...

distant place to study for 3 years. Now, he is in another place. He won't call me for many days and keeps phone in switch off. I will be waiting for the call daily, by the end of day, I gets disappointed. I miss him so much. I don't know even he misses me or not. If I call him, he wont lift. If I ask him later , he says, more work s der, so he need to switch off and also says that If he talks to me, he gets disturbed and unable to concentrate on his work. But, whenever he calls me, always hurts me and again says sorry at d end of the day. He s worried abt his family a lot. Once he says, our relationship may not go so longer till marriage, but again he feels sorry for saying this. Again he will repeat the same. He always feel depressed these days. I don't know, how to beleive/trust him any more. Now only he is ignoring me for his wrk/something and doesn't have 2 min to talk 2 me in his 24 hrs. what happens in d future? I really dont want to loose him. I love him so much. I know him for the past two years, he s very good,helpful,caring to me. But now he has changed. Thats my problem. Is this a good relationship? I want help in this.

nahh...I dont think it will work out..because you cant handle all that missing him stuff because of his work in the future...so yea...just move on to someone else who will always be there for you. =]

I agree with dre, give it a break, tell him that he needs to just concentrate on his work and in the mean time you both can see different people, let him know you are interested in getting back together but don't know what to think at the time. comes to a point when he needs to make up his mind between you and work, or family and work BUT DO NOT SAY THAT worst possible thing to say!!! because it is very hurtful.
if you want to talk about it let me know I have open ears.