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Boyfriend help please!!

Asked by volleeit18 5 months ago, 2 answers.

Ok so my boyfriend matt, is amazing so sweet and funny and I love him. He is what I live for and what I would die for. The cheese to my grill if you will haha. But I keep screwing us up. I have depression and a lot of times I slip into little depression...

episodes where I get really quiet and want to cry and dont want to talk to anyone, and needless to say, this gets him mad. Also, I never initiate kissing, he is always the first one to kiss and I'm the first one to pull away sad I dont know why I just do. And this gets him mad too. Moreover, he asks me questions and I respond with I dont know and he gets mad about that. But in my defense the questions are questions like what would you do to turn me on right now and I respond with I dont know. Also, he tries to make out with me in the hall way and is always trying to kiss me. I love him to death but idont see why our faces need to be glued together, and if I bring up any of this with him he will get mad and turn it around so I feel bad about myself. Help??!!

Answered by brianna1991 on Jun 10, 2009, 01:37PM
46 answers

Dont let him get you down. To me it seems hes more interested in getting a little more than you're willing to give if you know what I mean. Dont fall into his moods where you feel like you need to do something for him to be happy with you. My advice is to find out where he really stands with you.

Answered by warmheart on Jun 17, 2009, 10:28PM
584 answers

Any committed relationship is one where each partner has defined the line of demarcation of it is you and me for the rest of our lives. It is where you are both in love and marriage is the next and only step. Nothing on this earth can break the loving bond you two have for each other. If you are giving into each other 100%, there is no such thing as 50/50, then marriage is to be blessed. If there is only one giving, then it is not time. Many girl/boyfriend break ups and make ups only set the stage for divorce. I have been there and will never go back.
I've told my boys that the next woman I kiss will be my wife, and we will be at the altar.
Are we allowed a certain amount of pleasure?
What ever you do, do for the glory of God.