Boyfriend and porn?

11.13.09 Asked by babyangel22 7 months ago, 4 answers.

I've never really had a problem with any of my ex boyfriends watching porn. It's kinda like whatever. Well apparently my boyfriend has been watching porn lately. And I don't know but it bothers me. Like kinda makes me feel like I can't make him happy...

enough... or like I can't satisfy him, well I probably can't. Since we haven't had sex.
But it just makes me feel like I'm not enough for him and he needs someone else. Yeah I know, he's a man and they get horny. It's understandable. But I don't know why I just feel weird about it?
Is this normal? Like why do I just feel weird about him watching it?

35 weeks pregnant (Yes, I have a sports-bra on) Answered by stephanief987 on Apr 09, 2009, 10:22PM
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I know this feeling -
It will pass though, I promise. At the beginning of our relationship, I didn't catch him or anything but I found some very prerogative photos on his computer that were just as bad.

How do you know he's watching it? Whatever keeps reminding you, ignore that. Like if you found it on his computer, don't look to see any more. Or if he talks about it, tell him you don't want to know that kind of stuff.

It's extremely hard to get over, I thought this was going to get between our relationship because my heart didn't feel the same, I cried and everything.

Answered by lushis on Apr 10, 2009, 12:28AM
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im the same way when it comes to my boyfriend's. I know exactly why you feel like this and why you get upset about it...

its the fact that hes seeing other girls when its only supposed to be you hes seeing. I mean yeah on porn there all sluts and it doont matter who seems em. but it does to they guys girlfriend.

its nothing to be ashamed of I get mad at my fiancee when he watches it.

hes tried getting me to watch it with him. but it wont happen.

but I know exactly how you feel about this one.

America's Finest lol Answered by samurai on Apr 11, 2009, 09:18PM
186 answers

maybe because you feel your not eough 4 him physically
basically you answered your own ? and theirs not much 4 me 2 do here
goodluck

Clearing the Gene Pool Answered by bimjob on Apr 15, 2009, 12:20AM
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Babyangel, almost all men of all ages look at porn to some degree.
It has nothing to do with how their women look, or how their women satisfy them sexually.
And sometimes the guy will toss one off even if he has a 100% chance of sex with his woman, just because.
Sexual intercourse involves interaction and the guy's desire to help please his woman. Sometimes we just feel a pressure and we want to release that pressure - sort of like how a belch feels really good and satisfying (if you were a guy - which you obviously aren't). (I mean that in a good way.)
Additionally, if your relationship hasn't reached that level of sexuality (good for you!!), watching porn (and what he does while watching) releases some of that 'chi' that all males produce.

Take care of your special self, and, as always,
Good Luck!!

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