Boyfriend problems

Me and my boyfriend been together for 3 years now, the fist year it was so nice, we gave each other attention all the time, cuddles and we used to communicate very good. But lately something has changed from both sides. We behave like an old couple,...

always fight and even communictaing with each other seems difficult. We take each other for granted. But still we love each other and soon we are going to get married. Work stress does not help us either.

Please can someone give some advice how to bring back our nice relationship we once had?

Thx

All relationships come to that point. My fiancee and I went through it not even a full year after being together. My advice, do something you used to do. Have him write down three things you used to do when you first got together that made him happy, or made him want to do the cuddling and lovey dovey stuff. You also do it. If he is anything like my fiancee, it may take some convincing, but it is worth it. Also write down three things you would like the other to work on that are achieveable goals.
An example of my list: Good: 1.) I loved how we used to get take-out and light candles like we were in a nice restaurant. 2.) I loved how you used to bring me breakfast when you woke up before I did. Bad: 1.) I feel like you don't want to be around me when you bury yourself in video games for hours without speaking to me. 2.) You used to help me clean the house, and now I am doing it alone. I wish you would pitch in more.
It's not a magic fix, and it takes a little while to get back into the swing of things the way they were before, but it can work. That night my fiancee and I went out and got take-out like we used to, he stopped his game every once in a while to come over and kiss me and tell me he loved me, and when he took a shower he put his clothes in the hamper instead of on the floor. It's the little things that count in a relationship, keeping them alive keep you both strongly bonded.
We're back to hand holding in public, and cuddling while watching a movie. Yeah, there are relapses, but there has been a change. You can also post a question for those who have gone through couple therapy and see what they did to rekindle the flame :]
I wish you both luck in getting back to the lovey dovey stuff .

if you do not have any common aim or passion or task or hobby or else, that you two could do together this dullness of the relationship in obvious.