Boy troubles

I have a big problem. my boyfriend just broke up with me! I'll start from the begining..... last year I met the guy who I thought was my everything. he broke up with me last year within a week.( he only went out with me to get this other girl jealous....

lets call her victoria) ok so we break up and then she was suppose to be my friend but she asks him out and he says yes. so I get all mad and sad and write her a note and then we got in a fight. well they finally broke up and then we were friends again. about 3 months afterwards (I still liked him all that time) I asked him out and he said yes. so we went out for about 5 months. during all these months we had our ups and downs. for the first three months things were great, then things went down. I heard from one of his friend he would go back out with victoria if she asked him out (this was when we were goin out) and I asked him if it was true and he said no so I didn't really worry bout it that much. well a few days ago victoria (who was my friend again) told me he sent her a text message that said hay what are you up to? nothin here. well you need to give me a call sometime. well ttyl. love ya -will. so I got all upset and stuff. well he broke up with me the same day I found that out. I just asked him recently if he ever loved me when we were goin out. he replied yes. he also added that he always had a little bit of feelings for her deep inside. so thats where I am right now. I really want to get him back but I don't know how to follow up on this. I need advice. please respond.

Ok ive read your posts and this is my opinion on this. It sounds to me like this guy is loving the fact he has 2 girls fighting for him all the time cos lets face it, when he doesnt have you, he can just have her, and when shes gone, he can just have you. Cant you see it? this guy is a player, he never liked you or this victoria girl, he just doesnt wanna be lonely and you are both continuing to play cat and mouse with this guy and he is loving it! my advice........if this guy honestly cared and loved only you, he'd be with you and wouldnt be messaging some other girl while he is with you! so get rid of the loser and who cares if this victoria gets him.....let her have him.......she is the one thats gonna be miserable with him and it wont last either so you wont have to worry about it for long! and this whole time this girl is supposed to be your friend as well? HA you can find better people in your life i think! better friends who wont go after your bf when you break up, and a guy that treats you right and when you are in a happy and stable relationship they are both gonna look at you and be jealous of you!

Dear nicole_bell,
I understand how hard it would be to let your boyfriend go...but him dating someone else to make you jealous tells me that he isn't ready to date seriously and he is telling you the same. I also think that you are also quite young too or you would not consider going back with someone who would treat you this way. He stated he did love you...Did...I think he is telling you it's over. There is no room in a good relationship for bad behaviours so you need to face the fact that it wasn't a good relationship. I know this isn't what you wanted to hear but the truth is it is time to move on. You should never settle for anything but the best; someone who respects you, cares for only you, never would think of cheating. Take some time to dream of how you should be treated and then find the right guy who would treat you that way never settling for less.
Sue....good luck