Boy trouble x

My boyfriend is 22 and I am 16 and 17 at christmas he wants me to start a family with him but I am wanting to focus on college ad getting my life in gear what should do I am at a lost end we have tried talking but he just makes evrything sound so...

amazing and I am starting to warm to the idea of dropping school and h aving a bay and getting married please knok sum sense into me I need ti hear peolpes oppinions before I do somethig that could ruin my life xx

Keep focused and stand firm with your goals and plans. You are only 16, probably not ready for to start a family and have a baby...let alone know what a true relationship is. Live in the moment and enjoy being a kid, afterall, you'll be in adulthood a little later in life and you will never be a kid and have the freedom you currently have. Keep busy and focused and don't let this guy derail your future. Belive it or not, there will be plenty of quality good guys out there...and more than one that will respect you, not take advantage of you and and want to help you achieve and succeed. Nothing is easy in life especially when you are young and trying to find your identity but you are disiplined and are on the right track...stay focused...you have a wonderful future ahead of you...Good Luck :-)

Focus on college first. Then after you are done with school then you should start thinking about making a family with your boyfriend. Take things slow and dont rush them, go to college and you'll thank your self in the long run. Yes, having a baby is a wonderful wonderful blessing, but its a blessing that can come to you later in life. So talk to your boyfriend, explain to him that you are going to focus on yourself first, then you can start a family.. I hope I helped and good luck with everything!

Im sure you know that it would be a stupid idea to drop out of school to have a baby.
Dont you want the best for your baby whenever you do have one? Stay in school so that you can get more then a minimum wage job to take care of your family. If your boyfriend cared he'd be trying t o encourage you to stay in school. Make sure you think before you make any final decisions.

I suggest you just focus on yourself and finishing up with school and college...Hes older so he probably thinks hes ready but at 16 I think is too young to have a baby...if he really loves you he will understand...and besides at 22 he can even get locked up for being with you so why would he chance that and have a baby now

This guy want to trap you forever dont do it.

If he really loves you he will support your college plans.

It sounds like he only wants to get married because he is scared of losing you.

You are very young you have all your life ahead of you to get married and have children.

Please enjoy life first and don't throw it all away. Whats the rush?

Kiasu