Boy problems

so me and my boyfriend just got in a huge fight. I was getting mad at him because we are both home for break and every time I asked him to hang out he was busy so he called me late the other night and asked me to hang out so we could talk well I didnt...

want to talk because I had nothing to talk about I wasnt mad anymore and I didnt feel the need to talk about anything. Then he was like so do we mean nothing now and me being dumb said maybe well he didnt like that answer so he was like sit over there and he push me off his lap took out his cigarettes and asked me to get out of his car but I could find my phone so I didnt get out and he was like oh you want me to drive you home!!! and I was like no and got up at this point I didnt care about my phone but then he started the car and drove me home I got out slammed the door ( you know the deal) and went to my house well I didnt go inside hoping he would come back but he never did so the next day I texted him and he wouldnt talk to me he said he was done he finally called me later and yelled at me and I said sorry and what not and he was like its past sorry at this point im done with everything of course I wasnt happy but then he was like we will finish this conversation tomorrow and I was like why dont you want to talk now and he was like I dont want to talk about this when im drunk that definately made it ten times worst right there. I havent yet talked to him today because I dont know what to do I dont want him to break up with over something so dumb but I feel like I said all I could.

It soudns to me like he is being very childish. First off he is making bad decisions, the smoking thing is way too nasty to be around. Tell him to mature up and be a man instead of being such a whiny butt. Sorry, I am blunt. I am a man and I have dealt with men and boy's behavior all of my life. Trust me, do not let him yell at you for something like this and certainly tell him to never push you again or leave you somewhere. This is a bad sign, tell him to straighten up or get out, run like you are on fire.

hahahahahahah I think that is the funniest response I have ever gotten but thanks.

sounds like you picked the immature guy from the bunch. these guys are hard to handle. as I was getting to the end of the question and saw that he said, I'm drunk, a red flag shot up. you don't need to be with someone like that. it may not seem to be a huge problem, but once young people start to drink, it gets worse later down the road. from a guy's point of view, they become very abusive (verbally, physically, etc) in a future relationship when they have this drinking condition. I'm guessing he probably won't get help for it. if he decides to, that's different. for now, you should definitely keep your distance. better yet, find another guy that seems more stable and mature. this guy just sounds abusive. you don't deserve that; you seem too nice to be having to deal with this trauma.