Birthday fingering??

Okay I'm turnin. 14 and for my bday I want my boyfriend to finger me. The only prob is he's shy(ish). And does fingering make you unvirginal?? Please heeelp!!

he should stimulate the clitoris and not penetrate his finger in your vag!na
your so young!!! you might regret this when your older so think about it

the only way you lose your virginity truly is by having sex but doing that at 14 is such a regrettable thing I did the same thing when I was 14 and to this day I regret it because relationships that start when your 14 usually dont last I've had a lot of experience with that one thing my mom always told me was why would a guy be true if he can have the milk without having to feed the cow if you get what I mean make sure he is worth it

you have to tell him what sexual experiences you want (that includes fingering). he is not a mind reader. you need communication in a healthy relationship! just ask him

Thanx!