What if i want a quiet birthday?

it's my 19th next friday, and I'm stuck what to do, my family wants a big family bash, my dad wants me to go to england on an early visit to see him and spend it in london, and my boyfriend wants us both to go away for a romantic weekend :S what should...

I do without hurting anyone?
I cant go stay in london because im already going in april, and I kind of just wanted a quiet birthday! what should I do for it?

honostly I think you should do a irthday weekend of sorts do the ig irthday ash friday saturday and sunday you get with your oyfriend and and tell your dad you will see him in april tell him you still love him ut you have plans already hope that helps

just tell your family the truth how you really feel and what you want to do on your birthday.

I think you should have the family bash, so you'll always remember it. And then maybe a week later have a little get together with close friends.

It's your birthday. Do whatever makes you happy.

well it's your b -day and it's really your choice on how you'd like to spend it =) but at the same time... birthdays are ment to be shared with th ones you love 3 ummm...I say spend it with close fam and friends in the morningish...and go off with you boyfriend for the weekend when the sun starts to go down!! but in the end it's really your choice!! if you want a little me time then its completly fine - just tell them!!