Big problem...

Hey guys...

ok so here it goes... And please no comments laughing or anything.

Well I've been seeing this girl for quite a long time now and I've fingered her, we've dry humped and everything. and im so worried because I cum quite quickly while dry...

humping. shes touched my manlihood gently and I almost cummed like straight away but I just managed to keep it in!!
She hasnt fully tossed me off yet and im not sure if I want her to because I might just cum straight away and id be soo embarresed.

im 14, dont say I shouldnt be doing this stuff please because I've known her for a long time now.

thanks for any help.

WHATS WRONG WITH ME?!!

Nothing is wrong with you - your young and inexperienced and it's normal. The more expierienced you get the more you will learn tricks to make yourself last longer and the longer you will last.

Also, masterbating more often can help you to not cum so fast also.

Aww Lol well im a girl and I wish my bye would cum quick Lol its aches my harm :L

Lol

put cumming quickly isnt a bad thing really
I would perfer it

Tossed me off. That's a new one on me.

I don't really see that anything is wrong with you. I'm going to assume that this is your first experience with sexual contact, and I'm also going to assume that you guys are doing a lot of it for extended periods of time. Combine working yourself up into a hormonal frenzy for hours on end with the fact that it's all brand-new, of course you're going to be on a hair trigger. Once the novelty wears off a bit, this won't happen as much.

Keep in mind, however, that if you and your girlfriend have decided you're old enough for sex, you've also agreed to all the embarrassment and awkward conversations that go along with it. If you don't feel comfortable actually talking to her about what you're doing and how you're feeling, you're not mature enough to be sticking your body parts inside each other. I'm worried about cumming too quickly shouldn't be that big of a deal.

As a side note -- does anyone else find it bizarre that so many people are willing to discuss their sex lives with an internet full of total strangers but are utterly unwilling to do so with the person they actually care about?

I've always wondered that same thing - whenever it comes to sex, my fiance is the first person that I ask a question too or tell a concern too. You have to be open with your partner to have a good sex life.

masturbation can help you hold up a bit longer
you can do it MORE than once...
yeah so you can do it more than 3 times as well so get it into your head you dont have to spew once for the act to be finished

@mikeh

INTERNET = ANONYMITY

embarrassment isnt something someone can feel when hes 100 miles away from the nearest person online... and who cares what strangers think??? (according to these guys)

thanks everyone, maybe I shouldnt be so paranoid...

and I dont think you would have said the same thing at 14 lol. its hard at this age when everything is new to both of you. and dont worry we've talked about sex and we're not gonna be doing be doing it for a while lol.

mike is right. you can come on here and get good, un biased advice from people, and if they find it funny who cares?

thanks again guys.