Boyfriend problems big age difference...please give opinions

im 14 and my boyfriend is 19
well he has an ex whose 17 or 18 I don't know
I was wit my ex today who knows him and he told me that he seen my boyfriend in his car wit her
I called himnd asked him bout and he said it was just a ride blah blah blah
I...

think he cheats on me
because he also told my ex not to be tellin his ex that hes wit me
shud I believe that he dint do nething wit her?
considering I was wit my ex for hours and we dint do nething

Do you think he's cheating on you? Why would he be keeping your relationship a secret? Is he ashamed of something? Your 19 year old boyfriend is at a different place in his life...he has different interests, different responsibilities, different complaints...maybe on a friendship level he connects with her more because she's older.

You have a hard choice to make but you need to realize that there is no reason why his ex shouldn't know about you...unless he's doing something he shouldn't be.

For michellekay13...age does matter, a lot. Not only is it illegal for you to be having a sexual relationship but if he gets caught he will go to jail, have a record and have to file as a sex offender for the REST OF HIS LIFE. Do you have any idea what his life would be like? Do you know what prisoners do to sex offenders in jail? I promise you, his butt will never be the same again. Is that the kind of life you want for him?

Age does matter to a LOT of people...

Age dont matter! I dated a 18yr old when I was 13. Still with that same guy. Trust your boyfriend now. Your ex is just trying to break you up because he is jelous you found someone new and yada yada. Answer my question and fun mail me...

age does matter, he wants different things from the relationship and you have'nt matured all the way yet your still developing your personality. figure out who you are before you try to identify yourself as you with another person, who has big potential of hurting you.

personally, when we dont know the people or the situation, we can only make assumptions.
your boyfriend could be chill.
he could also be a scumbag.
ask around, talk to some real people that know this kid.

I did something when I was 15 wit a 21 yr old o.0 uh oh. lol the age thing aint a problem. but I don't know bout the whole x thing. you should b getting a gut feeling. do you believe him? if you do then okay if not ...

oh well I've been wit a 22 yr old when I was 14 too bt ther was no problems ther we were al good bt this guy was different. my 1st love bt it turned out he was cheating and now were no longer together... and the fucker was a piece of shit he gave me an std too and he owes me money and I had a prego scarce wit him bt yea oddly I still love him...