Best friends ex

I like him laot but he never knew until today.
then he told me he liked me back.
I was sooo happy, but then I had to break it to my best friend
she cried for two hours straight.
so we broke up, now hes telling me that he wants too have some fun ...

with me.
he promised me I wouldnt get prego or anything, but I couldnt do that to my best friend.
But I have liked him for the past two years and the only thing stopping me to him is her. She always gets whatever/whoever she wants and its not fair. Im always second best in everyones eyes.
Me and her arnt even that close anymore, yet we still call eachther sisters.
should I go out with him and take a stand for once?
or leave it alone and BE alone for the rest of my life?

if she is really your true bestfriend you shouldnt go out with hym.. if he was really commited to your bestfriend and there relationship he wouldnt try ta go with u ...no mattta how how much he like u

I think if you like him you should dae him its your life do what you wanna do shell get mad but if she is your good friend then it shouldnt matter unless they just broke up then thats wrong but if they have ben not together fo about like 5 month or longer you should go with him

You should NEVER date a best friends ex...that is one of the Cardinal Rules of dating!!

1 MONTH AGO YOU POSTED THIS**Im dating my best friends ex boyfriend.
She told me I could, she told me I should.
So I am, now shes telling me I shouldnt because she still loves him.
Shes like my sister,she means the world to me.
But now so does he, I really love him.
None of that fake love bull sh*t, true love.
Like when we kiss, sparks fly and fireworks explode, love.
Now shes mad at me, she lied to me. What do I do.???
Today she came over and we talked about it.
It ended up with her stormimg out of the room and yelling
real friends wouldnt let this come between them.!!!
Then I went to me room with tears rolling down my face.
Got my razer out and cut...deep...
It wouldnt stop bleeding for a while, but finally it did.
I wasnt saticfied, so I grabbed a trashbag and put it over my head,
Breathed in deep deep quick breaths.
When I regain consiousness, my wrist was bleeding yet again.
She tore me up, limb from limb. What do I do now.?
Do I stay with the one I love and sacrafice my friendship,
Or lose my love of my life and have my bestfriend by my side again.
Either way im going to end back up with suicide,
The next time im scared ill take it too far.**
^^Now your asking if you should date your best friends ex? Isnt that what you've been doing?

You REALLY need to REREAD what he said to you**now hes telling me that he wants too have some fun with me. he promised me I wouldnt get prego or anything**Do you even realize what hes saying? He wants SEX, not you! Ever heard the saying Chicks before d*cks. It means you should pick your girlfriends over a boy, because Boys come and go, but friendships are a lifetime! Its selfish, and very disrespectful of you to do what you did, especially because of the way you feel about her. Its obvious that you are jealous of her, and thinking that your second best in everyones eyes shows you have very low self esteem. Nothing about your question sounds like a decent or healthy relationship, but you just like him. You like affection. You like the feeling that someone wants you. You like not being alone.
None of those are good reasons to date someone. Actually, they go pretty much in the opposite direction. If you date someone because you just need to date anyone, rather than dating someone because you're compatible and theres a decent bond there, you end up in situations like this where the guy got dumped and jumped at the first opportunity...you. You are/were just the fallback girl.

You are still young, and there are PLENTY of boys out there, so why settle for a friends leftovers? Thats sloppy seconds if you ask me! Dont ruin a friendship over a boy, because you WILL end up losing both ways, then you WILL be alone!

The one thing I've learnt is that friends are for life, whereas boyfriends aren't.
You should never date your best friends ex, or any of your friends ex's-it's just not done.
I don't know how old you are, but surely this guy won't be your last boyfriend and surely you'll find a nicer guy later on... You just have to be patient.
Don't ruin your friendship by doing this. If she truly is your best friend then you two must have been through some tough times to make it this far-don't let that end because of a guy! Guys will come and go but best friends are for life!

True friends are like diamonds-precious and rare
False friends are like leaves-found everywhere.