Best anal sex advice

What is the best way to have anal sex if tramatized from past expieriences to where I will cum even better?

gurl that shit hurts tryed it once n will never do it again so i dont now how to make it better try lube it might work n alot of it

i love it, someone isnt doing it right! go slow, your partner needs to take a finger or two to get things going, use lube if needed. ( have a few drinks to help you relax) then once your relaxed and the fingers have got things going it will/should be much better. good luck!

i love it, someone isnt doing it right! go slow, your partner needs to take a finger or two to get things going, use lube if needed. ( have a few drinks to help you relax) then once your relaxed and the fingers have got things going it will/should be much better. good luck!

I appreciate the advise. Unfortunatly, I was not aware that he was just helping himself without any lubercation! This was back in '99 but still alot tramatized!lol