Being forced?

Okay, well my boyfriend always asks when he thinks I'll be ready for sex. And I don't want to yet. At all. He is 15 and I'm thirteen. Yeah, I think you understand why I don't want to. But it doesn't seem like that much of an age difference at all. Anyway, he always talks about it telling me he has condoms and everything. But I'm not ready. I tell him that all the time but he still asks when I'll be ready. And it's not going to be for a long time. One day we were making out and we were really getting into it and he said "are you ready?" and I didn't respond I just stopped because I didn't want to say no. He tells me he's not going to force me to do anything I don't want to do. But it kinda seems like he is. What do you think?

Hun face it he's forcing you. He needs to understand that when you say no your not ready it means your not ready. He has to respect that. Especially at such a young age. Sure your close in age but your still only 13 you probably won't be ready for awhile. Tell him he has to wait you'll let him know. If he keeps on insisting hun I say leave him. To you it may not seem like he's just after sex but that's diffently what it seems like. So I'm saying that he's really trying to force you. that's it he's forcing you.

okay... thanks.

he a 15 year old boy all he wants is sex just rember he will not force you but he wil beg and degrade himself for a chance but just tell him your not ready

If he says he doesn't want to force you, and all he does is ASK if you're ready.. that's not forcing you. Forcing you would basically be rape. Good for you for not wanting to have sex with him yet. I don't want to sound like most and be like na na na na you're too young... but really, you are. I know you know that though. Just firmly tell him that you want to wait, and that YOU'LL tell him when you're ready. I'm sure it causes unnecessary stress on you when he keeps asking and pestering you about it. So yeah... tell him you'll let him know. If he has a problem with it, DON'T let it get to you. Tell him hey... take it or leave it.

Good luck

okay well if he keeps asking you and you keep telling him how you feel, then he obviously isnt getting the picture. you two need to have a serious talk. tell him that you are serious about waiting. and that is good.. you're only thirteen!! im glad you have a good head on your shoulders..dont ever let him change your mind because you will definetly regret it down the road when you meet a guy who you wish you coulda lost it to. trust me...I've had first hand experience...

stay strong
dont give in
stick to your morals and beliefs...

dump him if he keeps tryna force you.
jerk. lol

-n.k.w.

girl; he is trying to make you feel bad, dont listen to him. if you dont feel ready there is obviously a reason that you dont. tell him to take your feelings seriously when you say your not.

I would kick the little shíts butt. Tell him to get lost if he cant respect your decision.

your too young to have sex and the fact that you even have a boyfriend at your age is crazy but you do. And 15 is too old cause the mentality of a 15yr old guy is much different than that of a 13yr old girl. He sounds so impatient and disrespectful and selfish. Whatever you do, dont give in. Respecting your body and holding true to your values is much more important than having sex when your not ready or being pressured day in and day out. Hes not right for you and I think you know that and if you dont, you will soon come to realize it. you should talk to him about your feelings and tell him straight up that he is to never ask or bother you again on this issue. If he does, then take action. Stop making out w/him or just let him go. He doesnt seem so concerned about your feelings or emotions and I really dont think he cares. Be careful cause he mite just want sex and then flee like a flea! Wait as long as you can...I mean years. you will regret it if you have sex now and the longer you wait, the more special it will be when your ready to take that next step. Funmail me if you like good luck tc and dont ever sell urself short!!!

I don't think he is trying to force you. It's just human nature, especially with a guy who is that age. Males have one thing on their mind and that's sex and it never goes away.
He is just being persistent, hoping that, if he keeps bugging you, eventually you'll say yes.
Put your foot down and tell him you aren't going to have sex with him. You should only have to tell him once. He should respect that you aren't ready to have sex and that you have told him over and over. iI he persists, maybe you should rethink this relationship. Respect should be at the top of the list as far as priorities go.