Being fingered

me + my boyfriend have been together coming up 2 a couple of weeks now, he keeps trying 2 finger me + he thinks its wierd that I wont.. im scared? I've never been fingered before.. help please. manythanks x

Scared? I'd be MORE concerned with my self respect. You have ONLY been together for 2 weeks, and hes already trying stuff on you. He obviously does not respect you. These are the kinds of things that young dating teens shouldnt have to worry about. You're scared because you are NOT ready! Dont do it because its what HE wants, or because you think thats what your suppose to do when your dating, because its NOT! Give yourself time to get to know him on a SOCIAL level not a physical one, otherwise hes going to treat you like some object to be played with, not as a person! This is a HUGE reason why young relationships DONT last...!!

most girls think its werid to be fingered, because of the puebs and stuff.
I've never been fingered, but if you think that he really cares, he would understand your reasons. talk to him
he should understand

and if you feel like maybii you should...make sure your ready

As long as he's gentle and slow, it'll be quite pleasant. He's obviously trying hard to please you, so just go with it. Make sure you request he be gentle. If you're really freaked out, you could try fingering yourself first or telling him how you feel. If you need more advice, send me a message. Also, I'd love to here how it goes.

trust me its really not that bad once it happens. lol you'll be surprised! its just like freaky when hes about to do it cause your scared and what not. but ya its not that bad. lol