Should I be jealous that my boyfriend talks to his ex?

Ok, I am a very jealous person when it comes to my boyfriend. is he wrong to still talk to one of his exgirlfriends on the phone, aim,myspace, and tex messaging?I mean they are both aware that I dont like it, but it continues, when I discuss with him, he makes a good point, if he told her he didnt want to talk with her anymore she ould call me and ask 'why dont you trust me' I dont know, its not that I dont trust her its the fact that th know I dont like something, and it continues. He even lied about it more than once. I never talk to my ex, but this is killing me...what should I do?

Tell him that if he is lying to you about talking to his ex, then he is obviously guilty of something. If there was nothing to hide he wouldnt lie. Now im not saying he did something wrong, its just a good point to bring up to him to make him think about what he is doing.

If he cares about you and your relationship with him, then he should listen to your requests and repect what bothers you or upsets you.

As far as his ex calling you- its really none of her business, and you dont have to trust her, especially if you dont know her. Thats an issue between you and your boyfriend- so dont let him put fear in you about his ex bothering you. You are the one in the relationship, and his ex should be worried about you.

Stand up for what you want, dont let someone walk all over you.

If you trust him- then let him continue his friendship with his ex- If not, then tell him what you want.

dump him and get a new man or get over it...if it was gunna stop it woulda already...plus dont sweat it...u aint going to marry him anyways...

Tsk tsk. You shouldn't let your boyfriend do that. You should ask him how he feels if you did the same thing & that your relationgship maybe going down on the drain. Because he talked to the one that he once had a thing with. It is possible that he may still have a thing with her. If he tells you that you're overreacting then you should tell him that he's being selfish. Boys are like that.

No, I do not think you should be jealous. Some people stay friends with their ex's. I think it would be absurd to say that he can't have female friends just because he is dating you.