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Bdsm - is it ok ?

My cat Asked by burning_desires about 1 year ago, 5 answers.

Hi there,

I am into BDSM and I have trained around 7-8 couples in this and I am getting moe and more querries. My speciality is to have a tailer made sessions but I never go beyond cretain limits.

I feel sometimes that I should not do this as I...

usually make the male slave and train the female to be his master for forever. I have also trained 9-10 single females as switch.

Its not that people dont like it to be honest they have given me feed back like they luv this new life and they luv to remain like this for all their life.

Now the problem is sometimes I feel that I should not do it. I have broken toghest females and tamed them in2 a humble slave, but is it ok to practice it ?

by the way I do it for curiosity not for commercial purpose. So should I continue doing it or should I stop it? if I have to stop how do I stop it ?

Satan's Little Helper (threadless design) Answered by mysterywolf on Nov 04, 2008, 03:14AM
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Well, BDSM will always be around because there will always be some people who enjoy it. It's also okay for these people to stop it when they no longer feel the need to express their sexuality this way.

So this principle goes for you as well. It's okay to stop doing something, if you're not comfortable in it anymore, or even when you are bored of it.

BDSM is not for everyone, even for people who arrange these practices. It's a sub-culture, so you can't really say if it's ok or not to practice it - it's there and it exists. If you feel that you shouldn't do it, or you feel bad about making people act a certain way or changing them, then maybe it's not for you anymore.

Getting out of doing it even if you do it out of curiosity or commercially doesn't matter, but it's definitely easier for you since you don't put a monetary value to your practice. You can just simply tell you clients that you are moving on into a new venture outside of BDSM, apologize for the inconvenience, and if you know anyone else who arranges these things, you can refer them to this person who can take on your clients.

My cat Answered by burning_desires on Nov 04, 2008, 03:59AM
16 answers

thanks buddy I appreciate your invaluable suggestion, definitely I wont hand over my couples to other person as its too delicate you see because I am sure you are aware their mind wont accept pther person.

To be honest its not that I dont like it, but its little difficult, I mean I also enjoy practicing it but then comes phase in which I would detach and just concentrate on my work then again I will get this weird kick of doing it so I start to train again !!

I have doing it since last three to four year always in patches never continuously plus when I get the feed back from couples like they luv it so I get positive abt my deeds :-)

so I guess thats why I have not moved away form it, do you also share my sentiment !!

me. Answered by karatebabe89 on Nov 05, 2008, 06:54PM
30 answers

If you enjoy it, sure. Just remember to be careful, because accidents can happen if anyone goes too far.

Answered by ikem on Jun 17, 2009, 10:40AM
74 answers

I think it's natural that the males are dominant and the females submissive. Not everytime, but most of the time.

About your problem: Two questions:

#1 Does it feel good/right?
#2 Does it makes fun?

Answered by laxcon on Sep 06, 2009, 11:11PM
3 answers

Lilith shouldn't banish to hell, women and men should be equal

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