Bad day!

My life is total sh*t.
I feel really ugly and I feel like I have no friends. Well..I do but but they are always ditching me. Like my friend Hannah is always ditching me for this one girl and the truth is me and hannah are closer than that one girl. It just the girl is popular...so of course hannah wants to hang out with her. I feel I just do not have any friends that are real. I secretly admirer all the friends that are so close and would not do anything to hurt eachother. All my friends are fake, Kaitlyn, espeacially! She is popular and around her friends she totally just kinda pretends she isn't as close as she really is with me. UGH! I'm so sad. I also have this other friend, Alyssa, who like likes this other groups of friends better than me. I love my friends to death..well not really, but I just want a real true best friend. everyone seems to have them now adays, except me.
I hate my life! Everything about it.
WHAT SHOULD I DO???

I feel the exact same way. I have 4 best friends, who, unfortunatly go to a different high school then me. I love them to death, but with all our sports and everything, we never see each other during the school year. I get extremly jealous and hurt by all their new 'boyfriends' and 'friends' All the 'friends' I have at my school are stuck up, and talk behind each others backs. I know that they secretly dont like me. It hurts because I've never done anything to them to make them not like me. Our dance is coming up soon, and I dont even no if I want to go, because of the girls at my school. My advice to you would just be to hang in there. Having a couple of real friends is way more important then having a ton of fake ones... I;ve learned that the hard way. Popularity isnt everything. Hang in there hun...!

thanks lax.
ya I know omg like I dont even want to go to dances any more wit my friends because I know they will wind up diching me...as usual

I don't know if this would help you or anything, but I would love to be your friend.

I know exactly how you feel. When my friend Ashley moved here, I was one of the first girls of our 'hang out' group to get really close to her. She told me her problems and I did my best to give her advice in return. Then high school started, and I felt like I had lost everything, especially her. She met this one girl Briney, and since then, things have been different between us. I remember one time I was in the middle of telling her something that was bothering me, and britney passed by, and she totally ditched me! I have other friends too, but none seem to care the way she once did. You should try talking to Hannah and tell her how you feel, and make sure it's when no one is around to distract her. And if she still seems to be making the same errors, it's time you try and meet other people. It may not be the easist way but atleast that way, you'll see who your real friends are. I hope I was able to help. Much Love, blossomel91

Don't worry hunny, I know what it's like. I only had one true friend in my entire life, but recently my mom fucked things all up with her, so now I'm solo. There are a couple girls I hang with, but I hate it, they're rude and not really friends, there's really nobody else though. I'm 15 and have never even had a boyfriend, I don't know my dad or anyone on his side of the family,but I do know he's a former addict, doesn't pay my mom child support has no desire to meet me and only works half the year. I also have a lot of brothers and sistas ( half), I think like 6 or 7 and I only know one. I'm insecure about my physical appearance, super-shy and get nervous easy. Things have also been really screwy with my mom lately, we get in these wild fights and she'll call the police, once they even took me for a mental assessment. I only live with my mom and little brother and we don't have a lot of money,we've never had a car and I don't have a tv in my room, mp3 player or cell. As much as all that sucks ( and theres still more that I'm not getting into), I still get by and it's compforting to know that things won't always be like this, someday I won't be sad all the time, I'll have a good job and a husband and kids. Just keep your head up and look to the future, I'm rooting for you!

how can they treat you like this? you didnt do anything to let them ditch you off like this naavastar if it helps I'll add you and be you're friend 4-real

Tough Luck
but I wish you GOOD LUCK

RebelRose24

I have the sam e problem as yours one of my best friends is so pipular so all my friends always be with her just to be poopular having pics with her chatting with her even when I cal my other friends they always tel me 'im talkin to 'katie' because she is popular!
UGH! I need advice what to doo
im always in a bad mood because of this really please some one tel me what to do!! :S:S

yeah I no what you mean apprantly 'your life is like a train, people get on, people get off. but true friends are there till the station'

I feel the same