Handling conflicted feelings after a breakup

you know when you love someone, you do anything for them.. well with my boyfriend there are certain things I cant do... like wear a skirt, spend time with my mates, talk to boys, or have bebo/myspace etc.. I know this makes him sound really possesive. and hes really a great boyfriend and im so in love with him. weve been going out for a year. But I kindof broke one of the rules by getting bebo behind his back. he rang me up and said we wer over. and im just so confused. I love him so much and I really dont want to be without him.. except a part of me feels better about it. I want to be with him more than anything; but at least now I can wear what I want and go out with my mates. what do I do.. :'(

babe your better off without him
there are plenty more great blokes out there that arnt so possesive

Yeah you don't need anyone like that. I'm sure he is a great person, but a flaw like that can ruin everything next you know he is going to be beatin the brakes off of you. So yeah enjoy what you want. he is not your dad. If you show him you don't need him or his 'rules' he'll come back and when he does let him know you will not be back with him unless he changes his ways.

You are like...15-years-old and already letting yourself get controlled by someone? Wow. You obviously haven't met any real men because no real, caring man would care about that stuff. He obviously doesn't love you, face it. If he loved you he wouldn't control everything you do, seriously... thats just wrong. No real man will tell you what you can and cant do, pathetic...

babe I no how you feel I was in same situalion and your always the one that comes out stronger your better off wih out him look in the morrow and say im worth so much more than him cause you are worth much more than that at the end of the day

thanks everyone. I feel so much better