Baby talk

Im 15 years old and will be 16 on Sept29. Im already just a little over 4 months pregnant and im very scared. I want to keep the baby. My parents will help me as much as they can while I finish school. My real problem is what im going to do. Im going to...

be thousands of miles away from the father. He wont live with me until at least 3-4 years from now. thats as long as things go as they should...
Im worried my parents will take custody. I dont want that to happen
what do I do...this is all so new to me (

hey, im 19 and I have a one year old. I got preg when I was 17 had her at 18. if you feel you cant be in school get your GED. its not hard. study a lot. babys are tuff esp in the beginning. what ever you do dont push people away... since the babies dad isnt there your going to need support from other people so I suggest start getting close to your parents. let them help you as much as they can. im sure they only want whats best for the baby. just make sure you dont give up. this baby is going to need you through everything and anything so you need to be a good mother. no more partying no drinking no acting imature anymore your only 15 your legally not a grown up yet but naturally you need to be one now. I wish you all the luck in the world if you need any help my yahoo screen name is kayciexxlee. Good luck. and dont give up. this baby needs to be loved and cared for.

I am going to ignore the fact of how young and irresponsible this is and give you advice for that babys sake.
First you dont have to let your parents take custody of it. Plus it is your responsibility. Two the Dad isnt the one with the baby, tell him you need help, that he could get a job and send things to help you out. Why are you having a kid with a boy that lives so far away anyway. Is there anyway he could move down where you are at. Does he have family there or anything. One thing you should do those is finish school no matter what, in the end you will be thankful that you did. As far as your parents tell them that this was your choice and you want to be responsible for it, but that you will need a little help. See if they can babysit while you are at school and as soon as you get home, you take over full responsibility. As well as on the weekends, sorry but your social life is going to be kinda limited. But I guess we all learn from our mistakes good luck

you should of waited till you wer older but obvs it was a mistake and you didnt plan it (I hope!) just let your parents help you wiv your baby and rememba he or she is urs no1 can take it off u! inless your a real unfit mother which am sure you wont be!

Shouldn't you have thought about all this before getting pregnant? You knew what the situation would be but still went ahead with it?

Anyway you just have to wait it out. Don't even think about moving away from your family. That is were your comfort and loyalty lies. They are the ones that will help you through this. Why would your parents take custody? Once you are 16 and show you are capable then it will be fine. if they are understanding then you will work together not against each other, surely they will do what is best for everyone?

how did the pregnancy happen if you live that far away from him? Thats just not gonna go away!!! the best thing to do is let ure parents get custody until you graduate and get to live with the father of ure baby im pretty sure they will give it back to you when you graduate that would only be fair for the baby

Discuss this with your parents. Im sure they have other concerns of their own and will apreciate your maturity with planning your future with baby. Good luck.

loe im 26yrs old and fell pregnant at 16 had my daughter when was 16 nearly 17.I left school to look after my girl.when she was at school I decided to get a casual job. now have finished a couple of courses and am still studying to try to get into the bank.my daughters father and I will be buying our first house in the next year.we started of at the bottom and have slowly worked our way up,so love you can to if thats what you want.beleive me my baby was a hard baby who never sleeped and a colic everynight so I got maybe 3hrs sleep a night.but is all worth it.goodluck.hope this helped.