Am I too young to have a baby?

im 14 and I really want a baby...is 14 to young to have a baby...?I can take care of it and all I just have a problem having the right guy to be withh..!

14 is too young to a babyy even tho you said you could take care of it !

While we live in this great country the USA where you have the freedom to bear a child if you wish - it doesn't mean it's the right thing for you, the father or the baby.

There are a lot of things to consider.
Are you getting a job to support the baby?
Are you financially secure?
do you have health insurance?
Is your job secure?
Do you have your own place?
What about transportation?
Will you be able to go back to work right away?
Will you have to depend on ONLY His income for a time?
Will you be dependent on your parent's income?
Are your parent's ok with that?
What if the baby is sick, is your job/school going to allow you to be away?

Here's what you should do to get a picture of why having a baby right now may not be the best thing for you...

Get a recent newspaper and look for a place to rent. Write down how much it would cost to rent a month.

Now figure out your utilities(heat, water, sewage, trash pickup, electric etc) and how much they would cost a month.

Do you want cable tv? internet? add those costs in there too.

Car payments? Add that.

Don't forget about the delivery! It easily costs between $5,000-$8,000 for a normal vaginal delivery, up to $12,000 for a cesarean delivery and much more if there are complications. If you are covered by insurance, it may cover most of the cost.

If you plan to use disposable diapers, plan on spending between $1,600-$2,300 by the time your baby is potty-trained. Expect your baby to go through at least 7-8 diapers a day on average and spending $80-$130 a month on diapers alone (especially in the first few months, when changes are more frequent.)

For formula (up until your baby is one-year-old), expect to spend between $1,000-$2,300- depending on whether you use powder in a can or ready-to-pour liquids. Plan on spending at least $40 a week on infant formula.

Don't forget about food for you, him and baby!

This is a break-down of the average prices for baby items (not all are a necessity.)

Crib with mattress- $160-$750
Crib bedding set- $35-$270
Crib blankets (4-6)- $8-$40 each
Fitted crib sheets (2)- $8-$20 each
Water-proof mattress cover- $10-$20
Bassinet or cradle- $35-$260
Changing table- $70-$600
Changing pad & cover- $25-$50
Dresser- $90-$650
Rocker or glider- $90-$500
Car seat- $35-$280
Stroller or travel system- $30-$300
Playpen or porta-crib- $60-$180
Swing- $45-$130
Play center or walker- $50-$125
Mobile- $25-$70
Baby carrier or sling- $20-$140
Monitor- $20-$230
Baby gate- $35-$250
Bouncer seat- $30-$90
Toy box- $25-$90
Gym or play mat- $25-$90
Doorway jumper- $25-$60
High chair- $45-$240
Diaper bag- $10-$60
Diaper pail- $20-$45 Refills- $15-$20 (3 pack)
Thermometer- $10-$90
First aid supplies (kit)- $20-$30
Humidifier or vaporizer- $15-$130
Bottles 8 oz & 4 oz (8-10)- $10-$20 (3 pack) or $20-$40 (starter set)
Bottle warmer- $18-$35
Sterilizer- $30-$70
Breast pump & accessories- $45-$350
Breastfeeding pillow- $20-$35
Bath tub or seat- $15-$35
Hooded towels (4)- $6-$30 each
Wipes (a lot)- $4-$5 (pack)
Clothes for first year- $500-$1,200

Add all that up.

Now that makes you think twice about being able to ""take care of it"" doesn't it? You're 14 and have your whole life ahead of you. I think your desire to have a baby right now is stemming from loneliness.

Why not get a puppy or a kitten?

xox
Sika

well im 13 and I want a baby but I choose to wait because I like spending money on myself. you are 14 and you are old enough to make your own decisions. if you do decide to have a baby then make sure the father is going to be there and he will take care of the baby. you know a lot of men walk out on their child leaving little babies crying and I think it is so sad. also babies are expensive. you have diapers, clothes

For the love of god and all that is holy...Do NOT have a baby at 14. Enjoy your childhood and all the magic that comes with it. You will reget it and god forbid might come to resent the child later if you have a baby while you're a teenager.
You need more than just love to raise a child.
Have you talked to your parents about this? Are you feeling loved at home? Please talk to an adult about this. Someone you trust. Maybe a counselor? A preist? Someone! Anyone!

Wait Darling. It's nice enjoying to be a teenager while you can. You have the rest of your life for a kid.

Enjoy dating and hanging out with friends without a baby with you.

You are too young to have a baby. trust me, if you end up having one you will wish you would have waited. You aren't old enough to have a job to even support another life. Babies cost thousands of dollars a year.

yes 14 is to young! have fun with your life, you dont want to be stuck indoors because you cant find a baby sitter.

uhhh... I am 16 got preg at 15 and it isn't a great thing to want when your this young my daughter is with an adoption family.. and I sit back and watch my sister... she has a baby too she is 18... she loves him to death and backk.. but she can't party... hang out with friends.. or do much of anyhting she pretty much can't be a teenager anymore.
No... you don't want this right now. just wait and get a kitten or puppy... =]