Baby@13

I feel as though I'm ready to have a baby but everyone that knows me doesn't really think I'm pretty or cute except my friend Michael thinks I'm hot but usually a guy would only have sex with you if u were pretty or cute!

Curious, what does other people saying your pretty, cute, or hot have to do with having a baby? Plus Im also confused at what the question here is.
If your question is should you have a baby at 13?
No. No. No. Thats a huge responsibility.
If that wasnt your question, Im really not sure.

Ummm... you're 13. You shouldnt even be thinking about having a baby right now. You are barely out of elementary school. Babies are not glamorous. They don't make you popular. They are hard work and cost money. Who's going to pay your hospital bills? Not you apparently, cause you don't have a JOB. Are you capable of handling the resposibility of a baby? Can you handle not having any time to yourself because a baby will take all of your time. What about school? You cant take the baby with you. Most guys don't want to have a girlfriend that already has a kid. Especially one as young as you. You know what? Most guys that age dont want to have reponsibilty of the child so they will most likely leave you to take care of the child by yourself. Seriously, having a baby at your age will really mess up any future plans that you have. It will probably tear your family apart too. Did you even think about any of this? You need to think long and hard about the consequences of having a child at your age. You shouldn't even be thinking about that kind of thing at your age! Seriously, there are so many things that could go wrong, and the fact that you arent even fully developed could put a really high risk on your life and the baby. Having a baby at your age could possibly be fatal to both you and the baby. (Meaning you could both die) then you have to pay for diapers, doctor bills, bottles and all the other stuff that comes with having a kid. Having a baby costs up to hmmm... I'd say around $100,000 or more. Do you have that kind of money? Probably not. I'm 21 and I still am not ready to have kids. I think you should wait a few more years when you have a steady relationship with ONE guy, have a job, and are able to support yourself and the baby. Don't go have sex with some random guy cause you want a baby. You'll regret it for the rest of your life. Please wait. If you want to talk some more you can send me a message. -LiliRae-

You are 13. So no no! Every one wants a baby young at age. And who would pay for your hospital bill? It cost a lot. And the baby stuff. Well over 30,000$ in the first year And there is a 50% chance you will die if you are under 15 years old. So don't try it! And guys will have sex with anything that moves looks don't matter to them. ( we had guys down here having sex with a vcr, or having sex with dogs)

It really does not matter whether you think you're ready. You cannot financially support a child. Therefore you are not ready. End of story. And someone who thinks that they're ready at 13 to have a child, and then have mom and dad have to support them, is not only beyond immature but ridiculously selfish. What gives you the right to bring someone into this world who then has to be supported by someone else? As for thinking the only reason you cant have a baby is because you're not pretty enough for someone to have sex with. Now I'm sure there are reasons you want this child. Obviously your family cannot be the most functional unit. However, forget about your selfish wants and think about what is best for a baby. Get a puppy if you want someone to love and dont screw up another child.

You're way too young

whats your question ?

U are way 2 young 2 think about having sex 1st of all and a baby that's a def hell no. Honestly you really need 2 think about getting a proper education and your future. How about college? A baby will hold you back they are expensive and a lot of work. They are cute all but when they get sick, the sleepless nights your not ready 4 that it drains you out.

Well my sister had a baby @ 14 and my parents supported her and the baby.