Dont want to be his girlfriend but I want to be his one

I want to tell this guy that I want more with him. I dont want to be his girlfriend but I want to be his one. Where hes my only guy and Im his only girl.Nothing public, Im not into that, but I want to make him want me so bad. I want him to want me, I want all the other girls look like nothing. We kiss a lot, everytime we hangout. I want more though like I know that hes my guy. How should I do this?

you need to work out exactly what you want first, and you cant make someone like you and want you, it has to happen naturally. So work out whats going on first.

Flirt?

That's seems kinda cruel don't you think? (As in what if he ends up really liking you and ask you out, and then you reject his offer b/c you don't like that kind of stuff?)

Spend a lot of time with him, if you two have a lot in common then just hang out with him, get him to take you out on dates, but not as boyfriend+girlfriend, as friends. Be yourself around him as long as he likes it and if he is how most guys act around other guys around you, then you've pretty much hit the hammer on that one. Good luck.

- Gothik

Pushing him is a forget it, men dont liked to be pushed they want to be the ones to make the more, and telling may pressure him into not being the one. And kissing him and dont be so available and you see how fast they run and wonder why your not around....they worry you maybe be with someone else. Great Book "Why men marry bitches" read it.

You keep contradicting yourself. "I dont want to be his girlfriend but I want to be his one." Then at the very end you say> "I want more though like I know that hes my guy." Exactly what more do you want with him? To be friends with benefits? You cant make anyone do the things you want from him. Why dont you just try being yourself, and acting like a mature individual.

someone's girlfriend and someone's one is like the same thing.