Why is my husband being such a jerk?

my huband has been pissing me off so bad. I work full time plus im a full time mother. my husband barely ever takes our son. he gets pissed off if I wake him up at night to take care of our son. usually I get about 3 hours of sleep a night. plus I was at work and my husband had the day off. I asked him if he happend to finish my laundry and he told me that he wasnt my b***. I had just bought him a new shirt, pair of pants, and a pair of shoes. and he also got made that I spent half of MY check on stuff for my son. new clothes and toys and stuff. any explination to my husbands PMS attitude?

Suggest marriage counseling or exit the situation - certainly not healthy for all involved...I wish you the best !!

we dont do councilling. its just been the last week with his attitude about everything.

Probably lack of sleep and lack of attention from you, he's having to share you now with someone else... apparently a lot of couples go through this when they have babies...

Husbands can truly be a**holes! If you really want to show him how important you are-go on strike! Stop cooking him dinner ,washing his clothes, household cleaning, and focus on yourself. Buy something for you for a change. Hire a babysitter and go out with your friends once a week. He expects you to do everything for him like you probably used to and right know he probably resents the baby because you shifted your attention. Get down to the real problem and ask him why he won't acknowledge in helping raise his kid.

I have similar issues with my husband on occasion. Women tend to get into, "got to get things done mode" when it comes to house work and chores. Men tend to get into the, "just wanta relax" mode. The stress level increases when there is a baby involved. Especially if it's your first child. You start to feel that all of the everyday life's responsibilities are thrown on you. We ended up setting up a household schedual for chores, shopping, and entertainment/free time. I make short list on a desk calendar that hangs on the wall. Things get crossed off as they are completed. We also had to set up a new budget to accomidate for baby needs. (cloths, toys, diapers, ect.) We still have our moments of disagreement, but that made life a lot easier. We also had to find some, "kid friendly" activities to do together. We had to start getting out of the house and spending sometime as a family.