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Most likely if you are 'easy' with the guys you will be played on, because they will not take you seriously, sorry, but I believe three months is easy duty, you have to study the guy closely, who he hangs out with, who are his buddys, his hobbies, where does he work, and if he is honest or lies a lot, before sleeping with him. You should also check his phone if he lets you. Try to get a lot of personal information. If you can trust him with all this information, he might be right for you. You will be less a target to be played on.
I know how you feel.. it's how I feel all the time..
just don't get close to anyone, look but don't
touch, remember you can't trust ANY guy.
this has helped me a little bit.. and I even
played a few guys myself just to have a lil
fun. just remind yourself that they're all the same.
I don't believe that ALL men can't be trusted because there are some really good men out there. Just make sure you don't completely trust a guy, because you don't want to be naive. And most importantly pay close attention to a guys actions not to his words like (for example, if a guy is always telling you he loves you, but he cusses you out and doesn't have any respect for you and stays out late at night without letting you know where he is, bringing up another lady's name when he's making love to you, chances are he doesnt love you like he says.) and a major point is if he treats his mother right. Because she represents the first woman in his life and how he treats her is a blueprint for how he will treat other women. It's a major red flag if he won't take you to meet his mother that means he doesn't consider you a permanent woman in his life, just a fun only girl. Rememeber guys are Action oriented so pay close attention to how a guy acts when he is around you. If you feel the way he acts is playerish then he may not be for you. And trust your instincts.
HUNNY MAYBE your FALLING FOR THE WRONG GUYS, your ARE BEAUTIFUL AND LOOK SMART LOL I THINK you COUL DFIND A GOOD MAN, MAYBE your GIVING THEM WHAT THEY WANT WITHOUT WAITING A WHILE TO SEE IF THEY ARE GOOD FOR U. you KNOW you HAVE TO GIVE THEM THE 3 MONTH PERIOD BEFORE SEX LOL IM NOT SAYING ANYTHING ABOUT you JUST POINTING THAT OUT. AND DONT TRUST ANYONE BECAUSE THATS HOW LIFE IS.
Thanks for all the help guys. But I have a ? for sam: 3 MONTHS??? ARE YOU CRAZY? I want to avoid getting played, not join a convent and punish myself. lol and thanks for the compliments!






How to avoid getting played?
I am constantly getting played by men. Whenever I avoid the previous player's tricks I end up falling for another's instead. Is there some rules that I should follow to avoid being put in this situation again and again? Please help!!!