At partys things get a lil to heavy

At partys i wanna stick out and be the girl everyone wants to be with and flirt with and do shit with but how can i be this girl AND DOTN EVEN SAY BE UR SELF I AHVE TRIED THAT DAMN IT!

OK then don't be yourself...

It's not something that everyone has and you don't just get it over night, it takes character and a good sense of humour combined with wit.

you can't just be the most popular girl...think about it.

I know that everyone wants to be popular but I never understand why poeple are aways so willing to change themselves to please others who are just as insecure as them. The most attractive thing in a person is their self confidence and their positive attitude towards life. Have you tried just having fun and not worrying about what everyone else thinks? If you take the time to actualy like yourself the way you are, you'll be amazed at how many other poeple will like you too.

Yea, I feel that way myself, but I starting to come to terms with the fact that that just isn't me. I won't even lie though, I still want it, but I'm just shy by nature, so I'm dealing. My advice is to keep yourself lookin good, but don't go outta your way to impress people and never do stuff you don't wanna do just cause you think it'll make you popular. Sure people may get a kick out of it in the moment, but they won't like anymore than they did before when it's all over. Just be nice and friendly with people and keep things real. What's meant to happen will.