Asking for a hand job

last week I fingered my girl friend for the first time and I was wondering how do I ask her to do the same for me. now im no greedy and only did that for her so shed do the same for me and woldent be affended if she wasent into it, but I know she probally wants to give me a hand job but it would be her irst time and on top of that shes a really nervious person in general. now I would be pretty emberrest to ask her to give m one (unless this is the only way) or the best way would be to guide her hand towards my crotch or to even go so far as to undo my pants and whip it out
any advise consering this subject would be greatly apreacheated

P.S. I know im a really bad speller !!!

Most guys eitha ask or make a deal. If youmdo her and den ask if she'lll do you. Sometimes it's also just easier if you guys are making out and really getting itno the mood for you to just take her hand and slowly make your way down to your pants and slide her hand down there. That kind of gives her the idea of what you want her to do. But also know that communication is key. If you two can't ask each other for what you really want then how is it going to work?? You and her shouldn't feel nerous or embaressed. Besides, if she doesn't do it in a way that is pleasing to you, you can always guide her and tell her to go faster or slower or harder or softer. This way will also teach her what to do to please you and make future acts more successful and less frustrating.