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Asking for a 3way relationship

Asked by fau 2 months ago, 3 answers.

my boyfriend and I have been thinking about getting another spouse in our relationship. we are fully aware of the risks, but we still want to experiance this type of relationship.
So how does a person ask another girl if she would join a long term 3way...

relationship?
How should I make small talk before asking her the big question?
Who should ask me or my boyfriend and why?

people that has experiance of asking a 3some or a 3way relationship would be most helpfull

Answered by aerochic102093 on Aug 27, 2009, 10:44PM
54 answers

I'd love to help, but I'm having the same problem right now too. Haha. Don't know who to ask and don't know how to ask when I find someone. Sorry.

Answered by omgitsagun on Aug 28, 2009, 12:26AM
19 answers

When you find someone that your interested in try to bring it up as a joke if they respond well ask if not then try with someone else

Answered by biglove_gio on Sep 08, 2009, 08:54AM

Hi,
I've been in such a relationship once.
First of all you can't just ask any girl to join you...it would have to be someone that you both like and feel comfortable around (usually a friend of yours). In my case it was my girlfriend's friend. So one of you should have a friend that is openminded.If not just go out, make friends see who you like and who you think would be interested in such fantasies. If you've found someone introduce her to your partner and see if it clicks...Remember it should click between all 3 of you...otherwise it won't work...And if you eventually get to the point where you would ask this girl to be in the relationship...it's best to just let one of you ask her (cause I imagine it would be a bit overwhelming to ask her to be with 2). so For example you ask her to be with you. And I think she'll ask you what about your boyfriend? and then you just say he's allright with it, he supports us that kind of stuff. And then once the two of you have started off you should all(all 3 of you) just do stuff together) and before you know it you're boyfriend will be so involved and you'll all have grown on eachother so much that you've got a 3 way...But don't rush the girl, otherwise she'll just leave.
And another piece of advice: don't expect a long term relationship. 3 ways usually don't last no matter how hard you want them to, so enjoy everyday together.
Good luck!

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