Asking all 13/14 year old teens! click here! i need help!

Ehem...Im 14 and I've never ever ever ever had a relationship of any kind. Yes not even kindergarten. I get compliments from my chickeys what im so pretty but they say im so quiet and shy. What is it im doing wrong? and some flirt tips would help because...

I have no clue!!

thanks! ily3

General Flirting Tips for Girls

Tip 1
Get out there! A lot of people are asking and even whining that they have never met anyone only to find out that they spend most of their time crouching in the sofa with a romantic movie and a pack of popcorn. Hey! Wake up, people will not just knock on your front door to meet you, you have to go out and be the one to meet them.

Tip 2
Be interesting by also being interested with them. If you want them to communicate, LISTEN! People like people who would listen to them when it's their time to talk. Remember, listening is a part of good communication.

Tip 3
Let them know or feel that you are interested with them. Someone has to make the first move and the simplest and safest way to do that is to SMILE! It's a nice way of telling that you are interested without being so hanky.

Tip 4
Always gives them a reason to talk to you. If you would like to meet people, you have to make sure that you have something. Wearing or bringing something that can catch their attention. Carrying something that you are interested with is a good point. The conversation can start from there.

If you have already opened your mind to the basic tips on flirting, then you can plan where to do the flirting tips above. There are several places where you can start practicing how to flirt with guys.

Great places to start flirting with guys are parties (social occasions, functions or celebrations), drinking places, learning places, workplace, participant sports / hobbies and spectator events. You can do it anywhere.

Here are some good flirting tips for ladies, girls or even teen girls. I have included teen girls because we basically start flirting during our teen years.

How to flirt with a guy

1. There should be repeated contact. Eye contact is very important, it tells that you are sincere. On your first, he will make sure that it is really him that you are flirting with. With your second, he knows it's him and is all giddy about it and on your third, he might be going over to your table now, you should express interest by introducing yourself and starting a conversation.

2. Whisper. This usually gets their attention. Avoid shouting. Check your voice; it may sound like a grill.

3. Don't stay in a group. No man can bear a rejection in front of a herd. Also, he may feel that he can't approach you because of your friends.

4. If you are not interested, be polite. You can always refer him to one of the girls. At least, you can practice your confidence in meeting other people and you just met a potential friend!

5. Give clear signals that you are not just making fun out of it. Make sure to check your choice of words too, your flirting might sound a little sexual instead of a friendly flirting.

6. Be positive. People like to be with people who are cheerful and has a positive mindset. Feel good about yourself and everyone, and they will feel good about you.

7. Buddy system. This is used a lot by female groups going to parties or drinking place. Walk through a group of men and let one of your friends check out who is eyeing on you.

8. Become more irresistible by showing a little of you, a little flesh in the legs is not that bad, wear something that can emphasize your great features.

9. Give him the winning look. From head to toe, nod with approval and flash your sweetest smile.

10. Lastly, don't forget to be YOURSELF! You will not enjoy any moment of it if you are playing somebody who you're not supposed to be, stay focus and be proud of who you are.

lol... dont worry everyone gets relationships at their own pace.
Hope I helped
Ravii33.x

You're only 14, you really don't need to be worrying about this stuff...at all.

In a few years when you finally do it'll be easier and better.

Well Im not 13 nor 14 but Im not gonna lecture you on how your too young...I mean I guess the best advice I can give on what you actually asked is just try to bring out an out going part of you and stand for anything you believe in I've found that guys normally are really into independent girls and trust me I've had my fair share. Haha hope I helped and just remember not to rush into anything and have just fun relationships at first.

you aren't doing anything wrong because I use to think the same thing but now I know boys do like me but they are scared of what they're friends might say when they found out that we were going out together. so just wait your time will eventually come

I think you should just be urself. Urz truly will come sumdai. Btw, sorry for not introducing myself. The name's david, and im14 as well I am in yr 9. I go 2 christs skl in richmond, london. If you eva want 2 meet up or call me ma numba iz 07943432286. :-)

1. when you are checking a guy out make sure he notices you doing it. make eye contact with him first then take a quick look up and down then back to his eyes and do a little smile...so he knows he is approved

2. when you are sitting across the room from him, or even just around him..make eye contact a few times, but not to much so he doesn't get a creepy vibe.

3. different smiles mean a lot. when you give a huge smile showing your teeth...it means your SUPER happy. but when it's just a soft smile with teeth, act like you're taking a picture or something. if you want the irresistible smile, smile without your teeth. and if you want a guy to know your interested a bit, half smile.

4. play with your hair...twirl it, brush your hands through it, etc

5. some guys like it when you bite your bottom lip

maybe you could wear a bit more makeup
and like the first comment .. do go out !
im not REALLY pretty, yet I go out to town.. sit in the park for 10 minutes and wehey boys ! really just try to break out of your shell.. compliment people.. be loud.. but not too loud so it gets annoying.. balance it. someetimes you could be really quiet - normally then people should come up to you and start talking maybe asking whats wrong and stuff (:

you are not to young.. im 14 also and I havent had that many boyfriend's but am pretty close to an older guy.. only a year but I always smile and just make him notice u.. today I turned around( he was behind me) and acted like I was looking 4 someone then just casually looked towards him and gave him the sweetest smile I could get out before I started blushing haha