Any moms out there with add? how do you cope?

I am a stay at home mom of 4, with a hard working husband who works at night and sleeps by day! and I cant seem to ever get passed the feeling like I am barely keeping my head above water with all of the household demands...writing bills, cleaning, laundry...omg!!!, getting meals prepared on a schedule...doing anything on a schedule!, errands, setting appts, keeping appts...its sooo overwhelming! I have tried it all (I think) charts, calendars, post-its, writing on my hand...I cant lose that, can I? lol! any advice? anyone out there with the same dilema? its eally effecting my self esteem and my marriage. how to cope???

I know my God-mom had that problem.
I know you said you have tried calenders but did you try one of those like huge ones that some people keep on their fridge. Every time I go to her house she has everything all written out on her gigantic calender and it really keeps her ahead of things. If money isn't a problem right now, I think you should consider a blackberry. They are great for those kinds of things for sure. Like keeping everything organized and all.

Hi,
I have a very good understanding of ADHD and the difficulties it can bring.

Please feel free to funmail me if you have questions or would like more advice on this often misunderstood disorder.