Anger

My mom makes me so angry. At times I dont know what to do. She doesnt understand anything. I cant even talk to her with out geting mad. It might be because she is old.. but I dunno. Maybe she might just want to know whats going on but she NEVER understand...

anything. She is driving me nuts... What should I do?

all girls start feeling this way when they start growing up and becoming more independant, they start feeling like becos mum is older and from a completly different generation from us that she doesnt understand anything we go thru becos its different to what she went thru at our age. What you need to understand is that your mum is learning to, she has no idea whats its like to have a teenage daughter that she doesnt understand so she is trying to but is prob feeling as frustrated as you. Try talking to her calmly about the situation, if you still feel she isnt helping or trying then just simply dont confide in her about your problems, go to your friends and just treat her like a mum and not a friend.

DEAR ANGER,
GIRLS IN GENERAL ALWAYS FEEL THIS WAY AT A CERTAIN POINT IN LIFE MOSTLY WHEN THEY TURN TEENAGERS.WE ALL FEEL AS IF OUR MOTHER AREN'T LISTENING OR SHE JUST DON'T UNDERSTAND.BUT IT'S BECAUSE TEENAGERS ARE AT A POINT IN THEIR LIFE WHERE THEY WANT TO BE IN CONTROL BUT WITH PARENTS THAT AREN'T POSIBLE GOOD PARENTS THAT IS.
YOU SHOULD TRY DOING FUN THINGS WITH YOUR MOM AND IT WILL BE EASIER FOR YOU TO TAKE HR AS YOUR FRIEND IT WILL BE HARD BECAUSE SHE MAYBE DOESN'T EVEN REMEMBER HOW SHE USE TO THINK WHILE GOING THROUGH HER TEENAGE YEARS BUT YOU CAN HELP HER BRING THAT MEMORY BACK.HERE IS A IDEA GO TO THE MALL SHOPPING AND GO TO THE SALON ON A MOTHER DAUGHTER DATE.GOOD LUCK.PS:IT WILL BE FUN!

well i know how u feel just try to stay as far as possible becuz sometimes u need to cool down an if u want talk to her about little things nothin over gettin mad about