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You have to be totally TOTALLY relaxed. A good time to do it, strangely enough, is after you've had an org**m because thats when you're the most relaxed. The other thing is, though, it's really helpful if you've already experienced lots of other play in that area. Is he already using fingers and tongue? That's the only way to really be in a position where you WANT it.
Once you're ready, lots and lots of lube, lots of time, lots of trust. You do the moving at first. It's better if you're in control and most important. stimulate your clit while it's happening.
YOU need to be the one in total control, so you can stop if it hurts.
I really recommend the website http://www.analsexye...
There are many tips from of women (and men) about anal and how to make it safe.
Good Luck!
xox
Sika
LUBERCATION... put water based lubercation on a condom.. DONT put oil, lotion, or any other weird things cause that would pop the condom and could cause you to get an std if he has one.
we are in a relationship and have been quite a while. I dont see any need to worry about stds. we are planing on getting married soon =) but thanks for the info... would love to hear more.
Finger play and lube really get things ready.Make sure you are relaxed,and play with yourself to keep it sexually charged.The fingers really ready you for something going in you.Water based lubes only.Don`t even consider it without lube.If after a good bit of fingering you are still very uncomfortable or not sexually motivated at all,don`t do it.
I like an*l sex ,it feels great,but I understand completely if a girls doesn`t want to.
How to have anal sex without it hurting?
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im sorry to ask this on here... but I have to know the answer to this. I am a 30 year old female that wants to please her boyfriend so bad in this area, but it hurts to bad. I want to know... from a gay mans perspective how to have anal sex without it hurting me. please help me ... I have tried for years and it has gotten me no where. (sorry nance if you see this question but I have to know)