Anal bleeding

my boyfriend is big and he did me in the butt we have been trying it for a while but last night we did it harder and faser then any other time and I bled after for a bit then it stoped is that normal and how shoul di claen my butt out to get the dried blood out and is therre anything else I need to do

okay....I agree with what brighteyez said.. im no expert butif you still have pain it might of torn a bit of your anal cavity...so if it worsens go see a doctor..have a bath and wash around the area but be gentle so not to do further damage

Whoa, that doesn't sound normal to me, but I'm not a sexpert, so don't quote me on this. You need to take things slow, sex isn't supposed to be painful or make you bleed.

All you need to do is tell your boyfriend to ease up until you are a bit more experienced and 'stretched' in other words. It takes time to get used to these things and the anus takes time to stretch out and get used to 'something' being up there. If he is rough of cause it is going to rip and bleed, you need to make sure you are well lubricated and take things slow until you feel ready to go a bit faster. So slow down, as for cleaning it, do not use soap! it will only irritate it, I suggest letting the water run down your back, water cleans everything and getting a small soft cloth and gently cleaning the area. If your pain or bleeding continues see your doctor.

I think that male semen actually helps repair the tearing in the anal cavity. Have him shoot his load at your boo boo.