Anal

My boyfriend wants to have anal...I'm just wondering...does it hurt a girl a lot more than regular sex?

Anal sex is tricky especialy at first! Let's say you have to tame your anus in order for it to be pleasurable. First, it will definetly hurt (a lot!)if you aren't COMPLETLY relaxed which means you have to get used to the sensation of something going inside your anus. Start by playing with it during regular sex before going for the full fledge penetration. Ask your partner to gently caress and touch it, use saliva and lubricant, start by a finger then move up. There are also a variety of sex toys you can try out in order to get used to it. When you think you are ready then get lots of good lubricant and make sure you are sexually aroused and relaxed. Your partner is going to have to be extra patient and very slowly penetrate you the first time. Make sure he is all ears and you can tell him to stop if it hurts. It really helps to stimulate your clitorus while he pentrates you that way you stay aroused and relaxed. When anal penetration is done correctly it does not hurt but it can cause bleeding and irritation if your too rough especialy the first times. On another note, anal sex can be very pleasurable but it also the riskiest way to have sex when it comes to the transmission of HIV\AIDS. Please make sure you are both faithful and STD free! Condom use is highly recommended.

Anal is very uncomfortable if you don't condition yourself first. Buttplugs help stretch the anus untill it gets used to accomedating a pen*s. It takes a while to get used to.

I do not reccommend anal. Your anus is meant to expell things not to be penetrated. You could damage it severely and cause infections.

I've been told by many of my customers (I sell sex toys) that anal sex was one of the most painful things they have experienced. What you have to rememebr about anal sex is that things generally com out of it, so the skin slides down rather than up. What you also need to remember is that you anus is tight to keep everything that's in your intestans actually in your intestines. The reason your vagina does not hurt as much is becuase it is made to accomidate things, it stretches when you are aroused and the skin is looser and slides upward and the muscles in your vagina are much different than that of your anus.
Anal sex is dangerous in many ways, you can damage the muscles in your anus, if he is not gentle he can actually damage your intestines, it's easier to get I nfections and STD's in your anus than in your vagina and there can be bleeding because the hole is so much smaller that you can actually rip it open....
My advice, make sure if you decide to do this that he is VERY VERY careful, slow and works up to his pen*s (uses fingers and such to open it slowly first then uses his pen*s) and USE A CONDOM, that's very important, very very important, and also use some lubes so it goes gentler......

thanks for all the great advice...any more is much appreciated